Thats neat!! Wedding planning is hard and sticking to a visual theme is hard. So our whole theme is much like our lives, picking out things we like and going with it. "Is there any way the food they picked lines up with the story they're trying to tell with the centerpieces?" You ask yourself sitting at the reception. Nope. No design concepts. No through-line. Just a couple of dorks with minimal oversight allowed to pick the things that make them say "Check that out! Its pretty neat!"