Attendance While we would love for everyone invited to be able to attend, we truly understand that traveling to Lake Tahoe is a major time and money expense. We completely understand if you cannot travel to attend the wedding, and we would love to celebrate with you at a later date. Gifts Your presence at our event is our present! While we appreciate the thought and generosity, we know that it is a lot to ask you to travel here to celebrate our wedding. We ask that you please do not send gifts.