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We cannot wait to celebrate with you!
We cannot wait to celebrate with you!
September 13, 2025
Cortland, NY
#BecomingBourdon

Kaelin & Christian

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How do I RSVP?

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Please utilize this website or text Christian at 680-800-4353

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We want our special day to be as intimate as possible therefore we are choosing to celebrate with only our closest friends and family. We have indicated on each invitation how many seats have been saved in your honor as well as guests by name in our RSVP section. Thank you for respecting our wishes.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones very much. However, due to many factors including space we respectfully ask this be an ADULTS ONLY affair. We hope you take this opportunity to enjoy a date night with your significant other or a night on your own. We greatly appreciate you making prior arrangements.

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What time should I arrive?

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Our ceremony will start promptly at 4pm. Please plan to arrive no earlier than 3:20pm and no later than 3:50pm.

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Can I take pictures?

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We are having an “unplugged ceremony” (no phones or cameras). The best gift you can give us is being fully present while we say “I do”. We have hired wonderful professionals to capture this moment for us & photos will be available to share as soon as we get them. Before and after the ceremony, please take all of the pictures you’d like!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! The bar will be open for cocktail hour and after dinner until 9:30pm. There will be a selection of liquor, wine, beer, and nonalcoholic beverages. The drinks are on us, the hangover is on you!

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What is the dress code/examples of?

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We would love to see you get dressed up for our big day! The dress code is cocktail-formal attire, please no jeans or denim. Examples include suits, sports coats & dress pants, formal jumpsuits, and cocktail dresses (mini, midi, knee-length, or full-length.)

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Will we be outdoors?

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The ceremony will take place outside and the reception will be split between the indoor bar, outdoor patio, and covered pavilion.

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