我们在校园学生团契中认识，之后在同一个教会里。更多的注意到彼此和更深相识是因这一起参加2024年的CHISTA (Chinese Student All Nations) . CHISTA是一个意在复兴年轻华人基督徒的奋兴营会【在这里给CHISTA做个广告！年轻人们都来参加吧！我们相约2027年CHISTA不见不散】在24年CHISTA结束之后我们因着要在当时的教会举办一个福音布道会，我们有很多的一同祷告服事神的时间，在群体里彼此认识互相吸引。 Our story began in a campus Christian fellowship and continued at the same church. Although we had crossed paths before, it was through CHISTA 2024 (Chinese Students All Nations) and serving together in our church that we truly got to know each other. Through shared prayers, ministry, and fellowship, God gradually brought us closer together. What began as friendship in Christ grew into a deeper relationship, and we are grateful for His faithful guidance every step of the way.

24年CHISTA和接下来教会的布道会之后，在我们共同的属灵长辈的辅导之下，开始寻求正式进入恋爱关系。开始了长达半年的祷告寻求明白神的旨意。当时我们面对很多的人生的不确定性和挑战，包括雪仪的Ph.D.的申请-导致我们有可能会异地，两人所处不同的人生阶段，在教会服事异象等..... 感谢神！祂不误事也不误时，我们在2025年的一月底正式进入了恋爱关系。神也一步步开路，先是把雪仪留在了DMV地区继续完成Ph.D.学业，再是让我们对服事神有更清晰一致的认识和看见。让我们明白进入关系这条路是神清晰一致的带领 After CHISTA 2024, we spent several months praying and seeking God's guidance for our relationship under the mentorship of Yongming. By His grace, we found clarity and officially entering romatic relationship in January 2025. Looking back, we are grateful for God's faithful leading and the shared vision He has given us for serving Him together.

从正式进入恋爱关系到订婚期间，我们也经历很多的高高低低。有争吵有冲突和很多彼此生命的破碎带来的痛苦... 但婚姻从一开始就是我们的目标，在永明哥的恋爱婚姻辅导之下，我们知道婚姻是神所设立的，是那样的荣美圣洁永恒的，婚姻是神最看重的一段关系，是一个基督徒操练品格牺牲舍己爱的最佳场所。婚姻也不仅仅是关乎我们两个人的事情，更是关乎神的家祂的教会和祂国度的事情。所以即便我们都不完美，还有很多破碎，都还在学习怎么彼此相爱，还有很多工作学业的压力，我们还是决定要进入婚礼里面，在这样美好的关系里来一起实践祂的大使命。 From the beginning of our relationship to our engagement, we experienced both joys and challenges that helped us grow in faith and love. Through the guidance of our mentor, Brother Yongming, we came to see marriage as a beautiful covenant established by God—a place to grow in Christlike love, sacrifice, and character. Though we are imperfect and still learning, we are grateful for God’s faithful leading. We look forward to entering this new season together, serving Him side by side and pursuing His calling for our lives.