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Cheryl & Tyler

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Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?

Answer

The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all take place at Tom Ham's Lighthouse in Shelter Island. The ceremony & cocktail hour will be held outdoors and the reception will be held indoors in the California Room located downstairs.

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

We'd love to see our family & friends dress up with us! The dress code is semi-formal. Our bridesmaids will be wearing black.

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Can I bring a guest/date?

Answer

We are having an intimate wedding with our closest family & friends and can only accommodate those listed on your invitation.

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Are children invited?

Answer

We decided to keep this an adults-only event and are only having guests over 21 to enjoy the open bar. We hope you understand and enjoy a night off!

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Is there parking on site?

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There is free parking at the venue.

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When should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4 PM. Please arrive at least 15-30 minutes early to find a seat and socialize before the ceremony begins.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes, the drinks are on us and the hangover is on you! Please drink responsibly.

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What do I do if I can't make it?

Answer

You will be dearly missed! If you are unable to make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP 'decline' so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

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Are either of you changing your names?

Answer

Cheryl plans to hyphenate her name after the wedding; we would love to receive cards and mail addressed to Tyler & Cheryl LaPointe.

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