FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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be ours & rsvp by valentine's day ~uWu~

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Can I bring a date?

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nope

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Is there a dress code?

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yes - you know we are extra af, match that energy. the dress code is black-tie: please wear 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐤 floor-length gowns or formal cocktail dresses, tuxes or suits with black shirts, neckties or bowties inspo: https://pin.it/4soDdECVT

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is there parking?

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there is 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 limited parking in the back and even more limited street parking until 12am with tasty ass cocktails to be enjoyed - we 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐲 suggest you uber/carpool as we cannot guarantee parking

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Are kids invited?

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hell no **the only exceptions are konrad's sister susan and cherise's cousin isabella**

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can we take photos?

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during the ceremony? absolutely not; we want you to fully be in this moment with us. if cherise catches you sneaking a photo during the ceremony, she will call you out on sight before and after the ceremony? absolutely

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Will there be an open bar?

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do you even know us?

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Do you have a registry?

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if you're feeling like sweet lil buttercup bebes, please consider contributing to our honeyfund

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I can't relax without the timeline, please dear god what's the timeline?

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arrive at 6:00pm mawage (iykyk) at 6:15pm cocktail hour w/snackies at 6:40pm toasts at 7:35pm dinner, to be served cocktail style at 8:00pm cake and party to follow the flow last call 12:45am

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Traditions! Traditions!

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after the ceremony, we will exit the building and our mothers will present us with bread and salt. bread is offered so that we may never know hunger, while salt reminds us of life’s difficulties and the importance of learning to cope with life’s challenges. our fathers will offer us two shots - one of vodka, one of water. they are offered first to the bride, without knowing which is which. tradition says that whoever ends up with the shot of vodka will be the dominant partner in the relationship. afterward, we break our glasses for good luck and konrad will carry cherise over the threshold of the building. at some point in the night, we will sing 'sto lat', a traditional polish song that is sung to express good wishes, good health, and a long life. we'd love for you to sing with us (in polish, hehe) ~ we can help with pronunciation if needed! sto lat, sto lat, niech zyje zyje name. (good luck, good cheer, may you live a hundred years.) sto lat, sto lat, niech zyje zyje name. (good luck, good cheer, may you live a hundred years.) jeszcze raz, jeszcze raz, niech zyje, zyje name. (once again, once again, may they live.) niech zyje name! (may they live!) unserious tutorial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lsElDhp7M1E

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But wait, I still have questions...

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email us at the.iskry@gmail.com luv ya's xoxo