We met in March 2017 when they were both forced to go out to meet one another. Neither one of them wanted to go out they both wanted to be at home. So as we both showed up to the bar (TH in WF) Tatum thought he was hanging out with mainly 21/22 year olds because the person who set us up was 21 at the time (Chelshey ages well lol). Well Chelshey thought that was was the oldest one in the group (Tatum also ages well) so we decided to argue a little more until Tatum said his birthday was in November and Chelshey's was in December,. The weekend ended with them getting each others numbers, but not texting one another for a few days. Things didnt really progress for a few months until June when Chelshey asked Tatum to be her date to her friends wedding she was in , he was a trooper sitting at a table by himself not really knowing anyone there. Chelshey than started tagging along with Tatum to family camping trips and events. In April 2018 Tatum got hired with RRVWR in Wahpeton, ND. It was in September of 2018 that they both ventured down to Wahpeton to start our new adventure- new city, new careers, and managing living together!! In September 2019 we made our biggest purchase as a couple... we bought a HOUSE!!!! It's been the biggest adventure to us as we navigate the North Dakota winters and actually having to snow blow our driveway. April of 2020 we welcomed our puppy Maci who has been center of attention in the house, she makes sure of it! July 31st, 2020 we took our first trip to Duluth, MN/ Superior, WI for a family camping trip, it was there Tatum ask " How about forever", and of course I said "Yes" and here we are!!!