FAQs
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WHEN WILL INVITATIONS BE SENT?
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Formal invitations will be going out this fall! In the meantime, please don’t forget to fill out the link we sent with our Save the Date — we’re using it to collect your information and make sure your invite finds its way to you! (https://www.zola.com/addr/jz3anXKnZ)
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HOW TO RSVP?
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Please kindly RSVP by December 31, 2025. To do so, visit the RSVP page on our wedding website and complete the online form using the password provided in your invitation. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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WHAT IS THE DRESS CODE?
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Black tie optional! Think elegant and formal — suits for the gentlemen, and long gowns or sophisticated cocktail dresses for the ladies. Dress to impress, but please, no white — that’s reserved for the bride! Also, please avoid shades of green, as that’s reserved for the bridesmaids.
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CAN I BRING MY KIDS OR A PLUS ONE?
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We love your little ones and favorite people, but our guest list is limited. If your invitation includes a plus one or your children, they’re more than welcome. Otherwise, we kindly ask that you come solo and ready to party!
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WILL THERE BE AN OPEN BAR?
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Absolutely. Drinks are on us — come thirsty and ready to toast with us all night!
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IS THE WEDDING OUTSIDE?
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The ceremony will be outdoors (fingers crossed for perfect weather), and the reception will be indoors. Cocktail hour will flow between both, with bars available inside and out. We recommend bringing a light layer just in case it gets chilly!
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IS THERE A HOTEL BLOCK?
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Yes! We’ve reserved a room block at Hayes Mansion San Jose, Curio Collection by Hilton. You can book with our special rate through the Travel Page.
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WHAT’S THE NEAREST AIRPORT?
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The closest airports are San Jose (SJC), San Francisco (SFO), and Oakland (OAK). Visit our Travel Page for more info on flights and transportation.