Wedding Party
Victoria Chaulklin-Shaver
Matron of Honor
The bond of sisterhood is one of God's greatest blessings in my life! As sisters, we've shared countless memories, laughter, and secrets, making this momentous occasion all the more special. From childhood adventures to grown-up confidants, our journey together has been nothing short of extraordinary.
Kevin Shaver
Groomsman
Kevin is actually Mallory’s Brother-in-law but to our surprise, many have thought that we were brothers. While we may not be blood, Kevin has quickly become an integral part of my life as not only a confidant or role model, but as a person who brings back to life all of the things that I loved as a child. As life pulls us all into the dreary reality of “being an adult”, Kevin is a reminder of all of the things that brought so much joy to me in such a fundamental part of what makes me the person that I am today. I am so grateful to have you as a brother and I can't wait to share all of the joys of our big day with you!
Alexa Strider
Bridesmaid
Alexa is my soon to be Sister-in-law. When I started dating Jacob, I knew Alexa would be protective of her baby brother. Understandably so, considering Jacob had talked about me for YEARS and had told all of the Strider family about this girl named Mallory that he wanted to date. By the time I had met Alexa, she had known 5 years of me and I was starting from scratch. Since then, I have learned that Alexa is a strong, independent, fun, compassionate, hard-working, amazing sister, and I can't wait to have her as family on such a special day!
Pete Willingham
Best Man
When Peter and I first met, we weren't very close initially. We shared a lot of the same geeky interests and mindsets but we really only spent time together in group settings. When I moved into a small house on the outskirts of Boone, Peter became my closest friend and my biggest ally. I realized my life and my faith were heading down a dark path and Peter was there to encourage and keep me accountable each and every day. I'll always remember the early mornings at Bald Guys, the “chocy milk” after our gym sessions, and all of the memories of life that we made in the small mountain town of Boone. I wouldn't be able to take this step without you and your encouragement every step of the way!
Lauren Dellinger-Cassada
Matron of Honor
I met Lauren at App State in 2020 as I had just became a rededicated believer. Lauren has been a constant voice of wisdom and understanding despite life's crazy circumstances. She's been a listening ear, judgement-free zone, and place of rest/healing in the middle of chaos. She's a sweet, sweet friend that loves deeply and knows me inside & out. It was an honor to stand next to her as she became a Cassada and I can't imagine not having her by my side as I become a Strider. I love you dearly and I'm beyond blessed to call you my Matron of Honor.
Nate Cassada
Groomsman
I actually first met Nate at Mallory’s baptism on Halloween day, 2020. During this time, I was dealing with a significantly hard season of my life and looking back, I always remember Nate as a person of peace and warmth in those days. We shared life, prayers, songs, and the unfortunate fate of loving women that only saw us as friends… Little did we know that one day we both would marry those girls we loved so much. I am so blessed to have your warmth on our big day!
Cait McDaniel
Maid of Honor
Cait was my first friend from freshman year at App State. She lived down the hall from me in White Hall, Floor 6. On move-in weekend she walked right into my dorm to help me decorate. Fast forward three days later (the first day of classes), this spunky girl from Charleston calls me to help her get across campus to get her broken ankle looked at. Next thing I know, we are riding in the back of a cop car on our first day of college. Needless to say, Cait and I have been through A LOT together. She has seen me at my worst, my best, and every chaotic moment in between. She stayed by my side through all of life's changes and has supported me in every decision along the way. I have laughed til I cried, cried as I healed, and it has all been with this girl. I love her more than all the stars in the sky and can't imagine saying "I do" without her. Cait, I love you so flipping much!
Alex Schrader
Groomsman
Schrader and I first met in middle school. In which, his dad was my 7th grade Social Studies teacher. At the time, we were just casual friends that grew closer and closer as the years went by and I eventually realized that Schrader was the first person I ever met that I knew I could trust, that shares the same values and mindset, and he never quit believing in me. Today, Schrader is not only one of my biggest role models but also my greatest friend. I couldn’t imagine taking this step without you and your strength to lean on!