Hotel
This hotel you should only book if you are renting a car. 45 minutes from the ceremony, 15 from the reception.
Hotel
40 minutes from the ceremony, 10 minutes from the reception.
Hotel
Nicest and most convenient hotel, however they have the smallest number of rooms and are the most expensive. 30 minutes from the ceremony, 10 from the reception.
Flight
If flying in, Newark is by the far the most convenient airport. But if you want to pay for a taxi JFK or LaGuardia can also work.