To RSVP, click the RSVP tab and type the names listed on your invitation. Kindly RSVP before July 18th, 2025. If you are unable to attend, we would appreciate you letting us know at the soonest opportunity. Any RSVPs reaceoved after this date will be marked as a "no" as we will be sending final head counts to vendors shortly after this deadline.
Yes! This event is black tie optional, which means guests are welcome to wear formal attire such as tuxedos and evening gowns, but it's not required. If you'd prefer, a dark suit and tie or a cocktail dress is perfectly appropriate. We want everyone to feel comfortable and confident, so dress up to the level you’re most comfortable with!
No, our wedding ceremony will take place at the Church of St. Michael, located at 611 South 3rd Street, Stillwater, Minnesota. Following the ceremony, the celebration will continue with a reception at A’BULAE, located at 255 East 6th Street, Saint Paul, Minnesota. Please note that guests will be responsible for arranging their own transportation from the ceremony to the reception venue.
Although we love your children, we regretfully cannot accommodate everyone's children at our wedding due to restricted numbers and space. This pertains to children of all ages including infants, toddlers, kids, and teens. Please refer to the "RSVP" tab to see if we are able to accommodate your children. If we are unable to invite your children, we hope that you will see this as an opportunity to let your hair down and enjoy the party with us!
Due to limited venue capacity, we are unable to accommodate plus ones unless it is specifically indicated on your envelope. For example, your envelope would list "(Your Name) & Guest". For families, it will list "(Your Name) & Family" or "The (Your Last Name) Family". When you go to RSVP you will be able to see the exact number of people you can RSVP for.
There is a public parking ramp located underneath A'BULAE. It can be accessed by credit card for entry and exit. Prices range from $8-$25 per space depending on the day and time. The ramp is owned by a third party company.