FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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We'd prefer that the latest you RSVP is September 1st, 2025 to help us in our planning and ordering of refreshments and reserving hotel blocks. However, we will have seating for all guests invited, regardless of RSVP status.
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Are kids welcome?
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While we love your kids, we've made the decision to ask that only children above the age of 16 attend our wedding and reception. We want our special day to be a relaxed and enjoyable experience and allow our guests to fully immerse themselves in the festivities without concerns about childcare or monitoring little ones. We hope you understand and can join us in celebrating this momentous occasion.
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What food will be provided?
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We will be providing pastries from a local bakery that Rhett and I love, Gratitude Bakery. These will mostly be sweeter pastries with maybe one or two savory options. We suggest eating dinner at one of the many wonderful restaurants available in Lincoln, and saving enough room for dessert! Additionally, the Pla Mor provides bartending, so alcohol and other beverages will be available for purchase at the bar.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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We ask that guests are seated no later than 5:15 p.m. Doors will be closed during our ceremony, and while it won't be a long one, we do ask that no one enter during it. If you'd like to be there for it, please be on time! Otherwise, we'd love to have you at our game night reception once the ceremony is over.
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Is there a dress code?
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Absolutely not - we want you to be as comfortable as you'd like to be. Our wedding will have a vintage, 1920s celestial theme, so if you're the kind to dress for the occasion, feel free to have fun with your outfit! But in general, formal dress isn't a requirement. Wear what you'll be happy in!
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Will there be food accommodations for people with allergies/restrictions?
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Our refreshments will be provided by Gratitude Bakery, who provide a number of different kinds of pastries. We will have a selection of gluten free and vegan options for those with dietary restrictions. If you have a food allergy, please contact Charley by September 1st to ensure that there will be refreshments to suit your dietary needs.