FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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We're embracing the 'till death do us part' theme and asking that guests come in their best, all-black attire. Feel free to spice up your outfits with gothic, witchy, and/or spooky vibes in the spirit of Halloween, our favorite holiday! A Wednesday Addams-style death stare will be awaiting those who show up with any color in their outfit.

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Will I be allowed to bring a plus one?

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Unfortunately, due to the limited size of the venue, we cannot accommodate plus ones who have not already been explicitly invited.

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Are children allowed?

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Short answer: no. We are only allowing children of our immediate families to attend. If you are not immediate family, use this as an excuse to enjoy an evening away!

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Anything I should know?

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Brandon uses they/them pronouns exclusively and requests that those in attendance do their best to respect it for our special evening. It may not be important to you, but it is important to us and especially to Brandon. It is not our concern if you feel like this is asking too much of you, as we are more than happy to share tips and tricks for slightly amending your vocabulary for one evening. You are welcome to message us for any questions!

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I noticed the registry page doesn't have anything on it, so where are y'all registered?

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We are not doing a registry and we couldn't figure out how to remove the page from our website. Instead, if able and willing, we are asking that guests donate to our car fund to allow us to purchase a more reliable vehicle. Anything you are able to give will be much appreciated!

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If I want to donate to the car fund, how may I do so?

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We accept donations through cash, Cashapp, and Venmo. If you wish to donate prior to or after the wedding, we can provide the details for Cashapp and Venmo upon request.

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What if I have a food allergy?

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We are working with our food vendor to accommodate those who are vegan, vegetarian, gluten free, and/or have other food allergies. If you have any dietary restrictions, please let us know as soon as possible!

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Will there be alcohol?

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We have decided not to have alcohol at the wedding.