FAQs

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What can you expect at wedding?

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This wedding will be as unconventional as the bride and groom. If you are wanting a poised fancy event then you may as well stay home. What you CAN expect is a small quaint ceremony with a fun party afterwards. It’s a pretty, climate-controlled barn venue with outdoor altar service. Very small guest list. All things both bride and groom love. Hope to see you there!

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Out of respect for our day we do not want any special announcements of your own to be made at ANY of our wedding weekend events. For example…proposals, pregnancy announcements etc. Thanks in advance.

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What date should I RSVP by?

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We need the RSVP by no later than 2 months prior to wedding date. That would be August 25, 2025. That way we have a set head count to go by.

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What time should we arrive prior to ceremony? (Ceremony begins at 4:00)

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Wedding party must be there by 12:00 noon. Family that will be in photos need to arrive and be ready for photos NO LATER than 1:00. (you will be notified if you are in photos) All other guests are asked to arrive NO SOONER than 3:00 p.m. Prior to that, there will be a lot of set up and decorating and pictures going on and the bride will be in view and we ask that the guests not disturb this process or see the bride before ceremony. Also please arrive no later than 3:30 as we need all guests to be in their seats by 3:45 prompt.

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What is the parking situation?

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There is VERY ample parking at the secluded venue and very short walking distance from seating. (You can see seating from parking area.) Flat area, easy for anyone needing it.

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What is the dress code for wedding and reception?

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There really isn’t a dress code. The wedding decor theme will be a mix of Rustic/Vintage. Colors are navy, dusty blue, black, and wheat if you are the type who likes to coordinate. Feel free to wear all the white, black, or red you want (unless you are in wedding party or family photos, please). Those usual color rules don't apply here. We do ask that women not wear ALL OVER navy dresses, as this is the bride's chosen color, unless you are part of the wedding party. Dress formal OR be comfortable casual in jeans and T-shirt. You do NOT have to dress up. We want you to feel as great as we will. Be aware, immediate family will be taking photos with bride and groom. (parents, grandparents, siblings, nieces and nephews and all their spouses) If you are wanting to wear a formal gown, please run a picture by bride first. You wouldn't want to look too similar or more extravagant than her. LOL.

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Are there seating arrangements?

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No, the ceremony and reception dinner do not have seating charts. We are all family now so there are no designated sides. There is only one rule, the front 2 rows on each side of the aisle are designated for immediate family ONLY. (Grandparents, parents, siblings, nieces and nephews and all spouses) Parents will have the front 3 seats on each side closest to altar and will be labeled. It is a small wedding invite list so don't worry, you will still be close enough to enjoy it all. :)

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Will food be served?

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There will be charcuterie items during cocktail hour directly following the ceremony. But you don't want to fill up because after the cocktail hour there will be a sit down FULL dinner at the reception. Followed by different kinds of cake and brownies as dessert. You will leave feeling fat and happy.

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Will there be alcohol at the cocktail hour and reception?

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Yes. We will have an open bar with a bartender. No underage drinking. There will be beer and alcohol and mixers. The amount of drinks will be limited per person so that no one gets too unruly. There will of course also be non alcoholic options.

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Can I bring a date?

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We have accounted for a plus one guest for most every adult (couples invites are each other's plus ones). If we have not added one to your invitation for some reason, please reach out to the bride to make sure that it is ok before including a guest in your RSVP. Any guest not approved for RSVP will not be able to attend.

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Can we bring our kids if they are not listed on invitation?

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With a muzzle and a leash? We jest, kind of. Although we adore your children, we are wanting a child free wedding and reception. The venue seating is limited and we want as many of our close family and friends to get to attend. Make it an adult only date night for the two of you. We will have enough anxiety put on us already, and following this rule will give us less to stress over. Plus there will be an open bar at cocktail hour, so it will give you guys some adult time as well. And we all know how parents need that sometimes. ;) Thank you for respecting this.

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Are the Ceremony and Reception unplugged? (meaning no cell phones)

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(PLEASE READ ALL THE WAY) This isn't a strict cell phone free wedding. You are allowed to bring your cell phone. However, it must be on silent so as not to disturb ceremony or reception. And it goes without saying, but we will say it just in case, do NOT answer a call during ceremony or reception unless it is an absolute emergency and you have discreetly walked away out of hearing range. Exiting for emergency calls must be done on outside of rows, not aisle side, and not during wedding processional because it will block the path of the wedding party. We do not mind if you take pics or videos from your seat during ceremony or reception, but we ask that you do NOT hold phones up high or stand or come into aisle. We have someone designated for photos. It will block other guests' views and the photographers. VERY IMPORTANT!!! ANY and ALL pictures or videos must be shown to AND approved by bride and groom BEFORE you post on social media and THE COUPLE MUST BE THE FIRST to post our photos before anyone else posts. Its OUR day, so WE decide what to share and WE get to share first. Please be respectful.