FAQs
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Can anyone camp on the grounds?
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Yes! There will be a designated area for the wedding party but outside of that there are 1,000 acres for you to choose from. Please bring your own gear and leave no trace - take all trash and belongings with you when you leave on Sunday!
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What do I wear?
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Literally whatever you want. Our very loose theme is "magic & revelry" which we are happy for you to interpret! The vibe will be sort of twinkly and sparkly and earthy and pagan. Feel free to dress like your favorite mythical creature, or formal, or in sweats. We will be fancied up, but you're welcome to come as you are.
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Can kids come?
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If your RSVP says “and Family" or your children's names are listed in your RSVP, then yes! If not, we would prefer if it was just you for numbers sake. But if you need help finding childcare, let us know!
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Can I bring a +1?
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If your RSVP says “and Guest" or your guest's name is listed in your RSVP, then yes! If not, we would prefer if it was just you for numbers sake.
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Is there a shuttle to and from the grounds?
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Yes! There will be a shuttle leaving TBD LOCATION IN SEATTLE for Shangri-La On The Green at TBD TIME and heading back at TBD TIME. Make sure to let us know if you need to use the shuttle when you RSVP.
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Will there be alcohol?
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Yes, and also beverages for those who don't drink. But also, if you feel like it you are welcome to BYOB as long as you are being responsible.
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Will there be dinner?
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Yes! El Gran Taco Truck. Both veggie and meat options. Plus some snacks and an amazing dessert made by Jordan's brother and sister-in-law.
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Do I need to be vaccinated for COVID?
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Yes, we are asking everyone who is eligible to be vaccinated to have whatever is the most up to date vaccination for COVID (for example, at the moment that would be vaccinated + booster for everyone 5+) - if there is a medical reason why you can't be vaccinated, reach out to us to chat about it. If you have access to an antigen test before you travel or attend the wedding, we would be so grateful if you tested before coming as well. We'll have hand sanitizer and masks in case anyone wants them!
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Can you explain the pronouns thing to me?
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Absolutely! We have many trans and nonbinary folks in our community. Lots of people's pronouns may not be the ones you automatically assume based on meeting or looking at them, so it's important to ask if you don't know, or just use their name (or the slightly more neutral "they/them/theirs", although we recommend defaulting to their name) when talking about them. Someone being transgender or trans means that their gender is different than the one a doctor or their family assigned them when they were born. Nonbinary is when a person is not a man or woman (or is both, or a combination!) People use any number of different kinds of pronouns and combinations of pronouns like: she/her, he/him, they/them, she/they, he/they, ze/zie, and more (https://ok2bme.ca/gender-neutral-pronouns/) - we know this is new to some people, so if you have questions please ask Cessa or Jordan!