Wedding Party
Lexi Comstock
Maid of Honor
Lexi and Cat met in college at VCSU through their sorority. Almost a decade later they’ve seen each other through all the ups and downs of life, supporting one another through it all. She/Her
Luke Snustad
Best Man
Luke and Jordan met in middle school through soccer and became inseparable throughout the rest of their lives. Jordan followed Luke to the Blue Moose where they still work together. He/Him
Mariah Danzey
Bridesmaid
Mariah and Cat met through mutual friends and clicked right away. Mariah is incredibly creative, supportive, and is someone you can always count on! She/Her
Jon Schindler
Groomsman
Jon and Jordan met through Jon’s siblings and RRHS soccer. They became roommates during the Pandemic and have now lived together twice. They now love to play video games, eat House of Punjab, and go to hockey games together! He/Him
Angie Byzewski
Bridesmaid
One of Jordan’s best friends since middle school and a supporter of their relationship from the very beginning. Angie and Cat became fast friends and she encouraged Cat to apply at the Toasted Frog. Angie is a true ray of positivity and we love her so very much! She/Her
Nick Walker
Groomsman
Nick and Jordan met in 1st grade playing hockey at Viking Elementary where Nick convinced Jordan to join a traveling team. They played hockey together for the next 11 years (except when Nick went to Central) and Jordan was in Nick’s wedding in 2024. In other exciting news, Nick and his wife Lexi welcomed a baby girl named Gracie Rae in November 2025! He/Him
Jacob Haugen
Bridesman
Jacob and Cat met while working at Sky’s, nothing like restaurants to bond friends for life! Jacob recently graduated from UND with his doctorate and we are so proud of him! He/Him
Rew Lekatz
Groomsperson
Rew and Jordan met in college as UND summer athletics counselors, they really hit it off after joining the ATO fraternity together where they were joined at the hip and caused a ruckus at both home and away UND hockey games. They/Them
Mac Murphy
Bridesman
Mac is Cat’s nephew and Dude of Honor, who is always looking for a reason to wear a suit. He loves gymnastics, music, Star Wars, and thrifting for records and other antiques to fill his old soul!
Lauralei Carl
Groomswoman
Lauralei is Jordan’s oldest niece and Lady of Honor. An adventurous eater, she discovered a love of escargot while on our recent Speare Family Christmas Cruise. She loves theatre, arts, music, and Harry Potter!
Cillian Murphy
Ring Bearer
Cat’s nephew and head of ring security. He loves hockey, Pokémon, LEGOs, and Star Wars!
DJ Carl
Flower Girl
Deej is Jordan’s niece and goddaughter, and our lead flower girl! She is artistic and multitalented with a love for so many different activities it’s hard to keep up!
Sandra Murphy
Flower Girl
Cat’s niece and named after grandma Sandy, she is Cat’s mini me in sass, love for fashion, and pink!
Marliah Murphy
Flower Girl
Cat’s niece, she’ll be 2 as of March 1, 2026 and loves keeping up with her older siblings!
Gretchen Cone
Honor Attendant
A rainbow of positivity and joy, Gretchen was friends with Jordan first through working at the Moose and became the confidant of engagement ring details. Cat and Gretchen share a love of thrifting, Winnie the Pooh, and animals.
UND Fantasy Football League
Ushers
Jordan’s fantasy football league of college friends, this league has been going on for almost 15 years and Jordan is the most recent champion (for the very first time!)
BJ Armani
Officiant
BJ is an absolute treasure of Grand Forks! They run the local monthly drag show, host community events, and is an all around great human. BJ has known both Jordan and Cat for several years and we are so excited to have them officiate our wedding!