Cat met Katie, their wedding officiant, for the first time at a birthday party. Katie and Whitney introduced Cat to their boyfriends, Kellan and Scott, and then to a very handsome and tall Minnesotan boy, Jake. Jake didn't remember meeting Cat that night, and Cat vaguely remembered him. When Katie and Cat became closer friends, Katie invited Cat to a night out. Cat would be the designated fifth wheel with Katie, Whitney, Kellan, and Scott. While the boys had invited their friend Jake as the sixth wheel. For months Cat and Jake were just friends, always the fifth and sixth wheels on their nights out. Eventually, when the group was at a concert, Cat and Jake started to dance together. Cat turned to Jake and said, “I think we should kiss. But if we don’t like it, let’s just pretend it never happened and be friends.” Well, they liked it. And they’re still friends, friends who are getting married.