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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
September 19, 2020
Chesilhurst, New Jersey
#cassyandshawn2020

Cassy & Shawn

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Shawn Kevin Weiser

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Cassy Rose Cagle

#cassyandshawn2020

September 19, 2020

Chesilhurst, New Jersey

The day I was struck by lightning

I was tired that night and didn't want to go out after work but my friend's begged and begged and I caved. So I went to our mutual friend Shawna’s birthday party at Skeeters bar and when I got there I went out onto the deck to meet everyone. She was introducing me to the few people I did not know and when got to the last person at the end of the table, it was Shawn. He looked up and said hi and I said hi and looked at Shawna and said shit! She said "What?" and I said "Shit!" Because I was instantly and in seconds struck by invisable nerve-racking lightning. I had zero intrest of ever being interested in anyone ever again lol. It was him. I knew it that very second...he was the one. My stomach flipped and my Hartbeat was in my ears in second’s. I could fell my face turn red and blushing was obvious. Of course I instantly planned to never speak to him and make agool of my self so I quickly walked away in panick lol. So I stayed at the other end of the very long table and couldnt even sit down I was so nervous and confused. They kept trying to get me to sit down at the only open chair which was right next to him but I just couldn't and kept replying I was fine standing lol. I stole a few looks here and there when he wasn't looking and apperently so did he. later in the night Shawna and I went to go to the bathroom and Shawn said all cute "Can I come? and I said nope." Over my shoulder. A little while later he said goodbye to everyone. I said bye nice to meet you and he said you too and that was that. The next morning I had a message request from a guy named marlboromann and it was him asking if I was talking to anyone and I said no and asked him the same and he said no and he asked me to get coffee sometime and we finally went on a date a few weeks later, after talking on the phone everyday for a while and my daughter Sam convincing me to go for it and give him a chance...…...and the rest is history and has become our happily ever after.

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