If your invitation says "and Guest", then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
No, there will not be a shuttle service provided at the venue. There is, however, free parking at the venue or the option to take an Uber or Lyft.
Yes, kids are happily invited to the wedding!
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high and that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.