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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
September 18, 2021
wolverine lake, mi
#Smith-Stilwell

Cassandra & Paul

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Paul Stilwell

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Cassandra Smith

#Smith-Stilwell

September 18, 2021

wolverine lake, mi

How we met

"Now, there are two less fish in the sea."

Paul was working at Aldi. He had just had a long day of customers screaming at him. Cassie was looking for something ridiculous, that she knew we didn’t have. But, Paul looked anyway. Our eyes met and we held each other‘s gaze. Cassie then asked me if id like to come for memorial day. We exchange phone numbers. Then Paul said… “You wouldn’t like the things I would do to you”. Cassie said… “Try me“. Paul knew that Cassie was the one because on the first date he said, “I love you”. Cassie said... “no, thank you”! That’s how Paul knew she was the one.

The Engagement

“Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning."

Five months later… Paul went to Costco to buy the engagement ring, he couldn’t wait. Immediately after the purchase, he proposed to her in front of the grill and garage door as she was leaving for school. Cassie said, “you better not be asking me to marry you right now... you better not”! So, paul proceeded to get down on one knee in front of the grill and garage door. He said, Cassandra Smith, will you marry me”? Cassie then said, “yes, get in the car we are late!”

The Wedding

"Shellebrating the happy couple."

We will be tying the knot on the beautiful beaches of Muskegon on Lake Michigan on Wednesday, August 11th. Join us for a reception celebration at our home on Saturday, September 18th. for the ceremony on August 11, We will be having an unplugged ceremony at our wedding. While we fully encourage everyone to bring their phones and cameras to document the day, we politely request that all devices be turned off during the ceremony. Once we receive the professional images from our photographer after the wedding, we will be happy to send them to you!

The Reception

The reception

Please join us for a backyard garden party at our home on Saturday, September 18 at 6 PM. Please help us celebrate our new union as husband and wife. We are excited to celebrate with you!

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