We love your kids - we really do but we want our wedding to be your night off! So we prefer our special day to be adults only.
If your invitation says "and guest," then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail/formal, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.
Yes, our theme is moody/romantic. Please in indulge us by dressing in dark colors if you don't mind. Preferably no velvet since our bridesmaids are wearing velvet.