Once you have passed the Mohonk Gatehouse, you will need to continue up the road to the right for another couple miles. Continue past the hotel to the right, past the valet station, and you will see signs for guest parking. Entrance to the building is by the valet.
The Parlor Porch is located off the second floor of the hotel. You will see stairs and elevators when you enter the hotel. Doors leading to the porch are near the top of the stairs (down the hall from the elevator).
Yes, the cocktail hour will be on an outside covered porch. We plan to have dinner on the same porch as well (but could be moved to an inside location if weather is bad enough). We recommend bringing a light jacket or sweater if it is expected to be cold that day.