FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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May 2, 2025

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What is the dress code?

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What’s Expected For a Formal (Black Tie Optional) it's essential to understand that this dress code sits just below black tie on the formality scale. While slightly more flexible than formal weddings, black-tie attire still calls for sophisticated, elevated ensembles that honor the occasion's significance. Key formal wedding dress code expectations include: Floor-length or elegant midi dresses for women ***Dark suits or tuxedos for men. I will kill you if you show up in a light or colorful suit. Sophisticated accessories Formal footwear Elegant evening bags Fine jewelry The venue and time of day may slightly influence how formal your attire should be. Evening weddings typically require more formal looks than daytime celebrations, though both demand polished, elevated outfits. Daytime formal outfits might also include lighter or brighter colors, while evening styles feature darker and more saturated tones. Formal Wedding Attire for Women When it comes to formal wedding attire female guests have some gorgeous options available. If you ever wanted to indulge in a luxe evening look, this is your opportunity for classic dressed-up glamor. The key is choosing pieces that combine sophistication with personal style while maintaining appropriate formality. Since you’re attending celebration, you should feel free to have a little fun with your look and include some personal touches in your formalwear. Dress Styles: Floor-length gowns in luxurious fabrics Sophisticated midi dresses with formal details Elegant column dresses A-line silhouettes in premium materials High-low designs in formal fabrics Trendy Formal Wedding Guest Dress Ideas: One-shoulder gowns with dramatic draping Sleek column dresses with cape details Embellished bodices with flowing skirts Modern cut-outs in sophisticated designs Architectural ruffles and pleating

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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as early as you want but must be seated by 5:00

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Parking?

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Parking is free at the Hyatt Highland. There is ample underground parking available.

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+1?

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No +1 unless addressed on the invitation.

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Closed or open bar?

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We are hosting an open bar so please come with a good time mindset and drink as much as you can! Be smart and take an Uber. Ubers/lyfts can easily be called at the highlands.

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How early should I book my hotel

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August is a very popular month in Carmel/Monterey with a lot of events. Please be mindful and book as quickly as you can. Even at 11 months out, you’ll thank me later. Here is a room block for the Hyatt Regency, located in Monterey, 15 minutes from our venue. I was able to secure a solid rate, with fee discounts. Limited rooms are saved so please book as soon as you can! This is situation on a Golf Course and very beautiful! https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/group-booking/MRYDM/G-CJJT

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Registry?

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First, Thank you for your generosity! We are not formally registering at a store, as our home already has everything we need. We, however, will have a Honeymoon Fund via Cash Envelope box, Zelle QR, and Venmo QR Codes presented at the Reception. This will go toward our Honeymoon and our lives together. Thank you!