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Are kids invited?

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Due to limited space, if your invitation does not specifically list your child(ren)'s name(s), we respectfully ask that you leave them at home. We understand if you are unable to attend because of this, but we hope you'll use this night as a date night!

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Do I get a plus one?

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Due to limited space, if your online RSVP does not have any additional names listed, we respectfully ask that you do not bring one as there will not be food or a seat for them.

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When is the RSVP due date?

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September 1, 2024. We ask that you RSVP 'yes' or 'no' by then so we can provide our venue and caterer with an accurate count.

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What if I don't RSVP by the deadline?

Answer

Bring a chair and a sandwich because we will not have food or a seat for you.

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What happens if I RSVP 'yes' and then don't show up?

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If you RSVP 'yes', we kindly request your attendance as we are making arrangements based on the number of guests confirmed. We are required to pay for all guests who RSVP 'yes' regardless if they attend or not, so please keep that in mind when RSVPing.

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What should I wear?

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Semi-formal (suit and tie and cocktail dresses) -- please no white!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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At least 15 minutes early (3:45pm)! In order to not disrupt the ceremony, anyone who arrives after the progression has started will be asked to wait to join the group during cocktail hour when the ceremony has ended.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that no photos or videos are taken during the ceremony and that phones are silenced. We have hired a photographer to capture the sweet moments of the ceremony for us, so our ceremony will be 'unplugged'.

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Is there an open bar?

Answer

Hell yeah there is -- which means there is no excuse for anyone to refuse to dance. There will be a tip jar on the bar so feel free to bring some cash to tip the bartenders!

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Can I Vape/Smoke at the venue?

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There is a small, designated smoking area outside of the venue that may be used for cigarettes, cigars, vapes, etc. We will be charged a large fee if any of our guests are caught vaping/smoking anywhere other than the designated smoking area. Please be respectful of the venue's rules or Carolyn will send you the bill.

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