We love your kids—seriously, they're the cutest. But we want our wedding to be your night off!
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we mean just you.
Garden/Cocktail, please. We want you to look as if cocktail hour and garden party had a baby, and that baby was your outfit. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.