FAQs

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What if I can't attend the wedding?

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We will miss you! We just ask that you RSVP "no" so that we can plan accordingly with our vendors. Thank you!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We ask that our guests be seated at the church by 1:15 pm. This allows time for our ushers to escort family to their seats, and make sure everyone is where they are needed!

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP by April 13th using the QR code on your invitation or by clicking the "RSVP" tab in the menu on this website. If anyone has any questions or needs help, feel free to reach out to Cara!

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How can I spend the time between the wedding ceremony & cocktail hour?

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If you are a guest from out of town this is a great time to check in at the hotel (only a 5-minute drive from reception). If you are a local, there are tons of shopping destinations & coffee shops to kill some time! Our caterers have a phenomenal spread prepared for you... so don't overindulge because we have lots of food and a Pittsburgh Cookie Table!

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation states "and guest" then you are more than welcome to bring a date! If it doesn't indicate that on the invitation we respectfully ask that you don't bring anyone additional. Please ensure that you are RSVPing for yourself and your guest. There will not be extra seating for unanticipated guests. We have worked really hard to give our vendors and venue an estimated headcount - we appreciate your understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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If your invitation includes the names of your little ones then that means they are invited, if not, we ask that you kindly respect our wishes! Most of the children who will be in attendance have a special role in the ceremony!

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Is there a dress code?

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Cocktail attire - your Sunday best! Sport coat or suit for the men & a sun dress or tea length dress for the ladies! We kindly ask that there are no jeans, flip flops or casual-wear worn! We want you to be comfortable though, so bring a change of shoes (or socks) to be able to dance the night away at our reception!

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Will there be a hotel room block available for guests?

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Yes! Check out the 'travel' tab for more information regarding hotel reservations!

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We have hired professional photographers and videographers to capture this special moment for us, and ask that all guests DO NOT use their cell phones to take pictures during our ceremony to allow our team to do their best work! After the ceremony feel free to take as many photos as you want, and share them with us or post them and tag #DeNapoliEverAfter so we can see them! Thank you for understanding!