We were both ready to give up on the dating scene, especially the apps. But we matched on Hinge and exchanged numbers. We texted here and there, and sweet Amari asked to hang out on three separate occasions, and Cara, thinking he's just another good looking playboy, may have blown him off a few times. (yes, once was to go out with friends on St. Patrick's Day. But to know Cara is to understand). Finally on the third and final try, we facetimed. 3 hours later, a first date the next day, and the rest is, as they say, history. We haven't been apart since.