FAQ | Fun Details

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What is the dress code?

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Our dress code is "Lover themed" with a cocktail or semi-formal vibe. We'd love to see you in rich reds—think cherry, ruby, or burgundy —bright pinks, rose, bubble gum, or baby pink, or timeless black. That said, please wear whatever special occasion outfit makes you feel most like yourself; perfect coordination isn't necessary. Whether you choose a long, short, or tea-length dress, a skirt, or a suit with slacks and a button-up or polo, the choice is entirely yours. We simply want you to feel confident and comfortable as you celebrate with us.

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2 hour open bar

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We are hosting an open bar from 4-6pm. After 6pm, it will be a card/cash only bar.

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After Party

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Our evening will wind down after our Boba night, as many of us are parents with children. However, if you're visiting from out of town and interested in continuing the celebration, Santana Row—where we'll be located—offers wonderful venues for an evening out. We also recommend San Pedro Square as another great option!

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Do I bring a gift/card?

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We will love anything you bring us. We are lucky to have all basic needs covered and we don't need any gifts. If you would like to donate to our Wedding fund, that is on our Registry.

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The #3

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The #3 is important to us. Alexis' bday is 3.9.89. Nick's bday is 12.31.86. Alexis and Nick crossed paths in Monterey in 2013. Alexis began dating Nick at 33. They became official 10.13.2022. Alexis moved back to California in May 2023. They found out they were pregnant with Alexis' rainbow baby on 10.3.2023. Their daughter's name is Capri Claire Cabales, which is the 3rd letter of the alphabet and 3 of the same letter.

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Wedding Veil

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The veil Alexis will be wearing is the veil her Mom wore at her wedding that Alexis' Aunt made for her Mom.