Best Man
Phil's older brother. Rob and his wife Peggy lovingly assisted during the engagement in Oman. They have also been wonderful guides during our relationship
Groomsman
Murphy and Phil have been friends since they met in choir in 6th grade. They continued to be friends, rooming together in college, and carpooling during graduate school. Murphy has also had a camera at his side since 6th grade, so is also the reason Phil has memories from his past.
Groomsman
Varun is one of Phil's first friends when they met at age 4. Together they figured out cub scouts, grade school, and adult life. He and his wife Pooja's love story inspired Phil to seek out a similar kind of love in Candice.
Groomsman
Suvo and Phil grew up living down the street from each other, starting in 3rd grade. Their relationship began around Nintendo 64, continued through burger adventures in our 20s, and Sci-Fi and superhero movies.
Groomsman
Andrew and Phil have been friends since being on the same 2nd grade soccer team. Andrew has always been a kind person in Phil's life, whether it's sending seltzer from 3000 miles away or giving Phil a place to stay while he pursued non-profit work after college.
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Chris and Phil first met at Sunday school after realizing that there were other Filipinos in the class. They became close especially while Phil was in graduate school where Chris would host Ledger game nights and barbecues.
Groomsman
Jon and Phil first met while attending Filipino family parties when they were in 4th grade. Jon and Phil bonded while in their local annual Filipino Cultural Camp, figuring out Filipino-American identity through camp, college, and beyond.
Groomsman
Dillon and Phil met while in middle school. Dillon is an energetic and friendly man who will throw high kicks when he's excited. They became close when Dillon began his amateur MMA journey with Phil as his cardio coach and training partner.
Groomsman
John and Phil first met when they were in homeroom together in 8th grade. John and Phil continued being through college, rooming together sophomore year. John brings our group together through fantasy leagues and basketball.
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Audi and Phil while in college and roomed together junior and senior year. Audi has been empathetic voice in Phil's life since then and they continue their friendship through board games, anime, and summer group vacations (or staycations in DC).
Sponsor- Arras
Cathy is Phil's older sister. She was Phil's second mom growing up and has been a loving presence in his life. After entering into the family, Ashley has also shared words of wisdom along the way.
Maid of Honor
Denna is Candice's chosen sister, ride or die roommate from coast to coast, and partially responsible for this love story! She has been Candice's anchor since they met in a women's Bible Study group back in the Bay Area circa 2012, introduced by a mutual friend who connected us due to our shared cultural experiences (aka being the 1% Black residents who lived in Mountain View, CA). Lol.
Bridesmaid & Sister
Donna is Candice's older sister whom Candice has admired since she was a child. Donna leads with wisdom and her superpower as a mom of 6 beautiful children. She is the family protector, supporter, and matriarch.
Bridesmaid
Peggy is Candice's sister in love, friend, and Legal Rights Boss. Their friendship is filled with moments of laughter, growth, and trying to figure out how to convince their partners Rob and Phil to live in the same city. Lol. From chatting until 7 in the morning swapping life stories to the Beyonce Renaissance experience, Candice is so grateful for Peggy's sun-filled presence in her life.
Bridesmaid
Stacy and Candice met at a Bay Area women's Bible Study group and became roommates, living together in the Bay Area for 4 years (Denna joined our household after our first year). Stacy's grace and wisdom that us beyond her years fill any room she walks in. Candice owes her love of tea, K-Dramas, and Asian face masks to living with Stacy. Candice was looking for a roommate and discovered a sisterhood.
Bridesmaid
Sonja and Candice's friendship grew from a casual introduction from Sonja's mom at a Bay Area Bible Study. Sonja has a heart of gold with a cool Cali vibe like no other. She is stylish effortlessly. From their First Friday Oakland adventures to visits to Sonja's Memphis mansion, their sisterhood bloomed throughout the years in spite of not living in the same city for over a decade
Bridesman
Darrell and Candice have been friends since 8th grade and have bonded over the trauma of attending Providence St. Mel. Darrell is like Candice's second brother who fills the friendship with laughter and reality checks as needed. Lol. Darrell has an artistic spirit who captures perfect moments of nature and timing of jokes alike.
Bridesman
Sean and Candice became friends in high school and have never looked back. Their friendship spans 4 continents filled with adventures and mishaps like missing their South African wine tour bus because they needed caffeine first. Candice admires Sean's "work hard-play harder" mentality, adventurous spirit, and being a perpetual over-achiever. Candice gained a brother, even with Sean living distantly in China for over a decade.
Bridesmaid
Caprecia and Candice have been friends since high school, their friendship transforming into a sisterhood rooted in their Faith over the years. Caprecia is kind, industrious, and has an entrepreneurial spirit unlike no other. Candice appreciates Caprecia's calm spirit and support over the years.
Bridesmaid
Desiree and Candice met through Desiree's now husband, Malcolm, at their undergrad Washington University in St. Louis. Their mutual values around friendship and faith brought them together in a bond that has traveled through their different life seasons. Candice has admired Desiree's intelligence, wise spirit, and family life over the years. Outside of college reunions, they make space for each other like conquering the Essence Festival or visiting the Foley family in Waco, TX.
Bridesmaid
Cheyenne and Candice have been friends since their freshman year of college and became roommates for the last 2 years. Cheyenne is always cool, calm, and collected even when Candice overplayed Beyonce's hit album "4" with Party, Love on Top, and Run the World (Girls) to name a few. They maintained their sisterhood with trips to LA during Candice's Bay Area adventures including Thanksgiving celebrations as Candice escaped the Chicago winters when she could.
Sponsoring the Black American Tradition
Kimyatta is Candice's maternal first cousin in a large family filled with good BBQ and energetic family gatherings. Candice attended Kimyatta and Jermale's wedding over 21 years ago and has admired their family growth throughout the years. Candice is excited to have Kimyatta and Jermale serve as sponsors, a Filipino tradition, in sharing in their marital wisdom and honoring Black American's ancestry tradition of "Jumping the Broom".