FAQs
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Can I bring a plus one?
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We love you and want to celebrate with you, but our guest list is limited. If your invitation includes a plus-one or additional family members, their names will appear on Zola when you RSVP. If not, we hope you can still join us and celebrate with us.
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Can we bring our children?
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While we love your little ones, we kindly request an adults-only celebration. The only children attending will be those participating in the wedding party. We hope you can enjoy a fun night out celebrating with us!
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What should I wear?
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Our wedding will be formal. We encourage guests to wear all black or dark, fall-inspired colors - think rich tones like deep burgundy, emerald, navy, or charcoal. Formal dresses, tuxedos, suits, or dress shirts with slacks are perfect. We want everyone to look chic and feel comfortable on the dance floor!
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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Our ceremony will be fully unplugged (no phones!) We kindly ask that guests refrain from taking photos during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present in the moment. Our photographer will capture everything, and we’ll share photos afterward!
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When should I RSVP?
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Please RSVP by August 15th, 2026 so we can finalize our guest count. You can do this easily on our wedding website by searching your name under the RSVP section.
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Will the ceremony and reception be at the same location?
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Yes! Both will take place at Casa Real in Pleasanton, CA. Cocktail hour will immediately follow the ceremony.
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Is there parking available?
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Yes! There’s plenty of parking available onsite. If you’d prefer not to drive, rideshares like Uber or Lyft are easy from nearby hotels. And worst case, if you decide to have some fun, you can leave your car at the venue overnight and pick it up the next morning.
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What time should we arrive?
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Please plan to arrive about 30-45 minutes before the ceremony begins to give yourself time to park, find your seat, and get settled. Late guests will not be permitted into the ceremony area, so please be on time to avoid missing the moment!
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What is the weather like this time of year?
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October evenings in Pleasanton are usually warm/mild but can cool off after sunset, so a light jacket or wrap is a good idea.
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Do you have a wedding registry?
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Yes, we have a wedding registry! You can find all the details on the Registry page of our website!
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What is the dress code for the welcome party?
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Smart casual. We will be on a heated outdoor patio so bringing a jacket is recommended.
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Can I bring a guest to the welcome party?
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We appreciate your excitement, but our welcome party is limited to our wedding guests only. We've carefully planned the event to accommodate our wedding attendees and ensure an intimate celebration.
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Are children allowed at the welcome party?
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Our welcome party will be an adults-only celebration. While we adore your children, we want to ensure that you have the opportunity to relax, mingle, and fully enjoy the weekend!
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Can I bring gifts to the wedding?
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We kindly request that guests limit their gifts to cards on our wedding day. For those who wish to give a gift, we've set up a convenient registry where items can be shipped directly to our home, making the process smoother for everyone.