Q+A

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Can I take pictures?

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Yes! As long as you share the photos with us, take as many as you want. Please keep in mind we did hire a professional photographer so please don't get out of your seat for any shots.

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What time should I arrive?

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Please arrive at the venue by 4:00-4:10pm to give yourself time to park and get situated. The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30pm.

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Is there a dress code?

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We ask for our guests to dress in semi-formal attire. Think dresses and dressy jumpsuits or dress pants and a button down (ties and jackets are optional!). The ceremony and reception will be held outdoors, so keep the weather and terrain in mind when choosing your shoes and layers. One small request: please avoid wearing burgundy/cabernet as that's the color our wedding party will be wearing.

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Which side do I sit on during the ceremony?

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There are no sides, only seats! Please reserved the first row on each side for family in the wedding.

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Is there parking for the ceremony/reception?

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Yes! Benham's Grove hosts two wedding on it's facilities. One the left is the event center, a big beautiful building. On the right is the historic side (Our side). Park on the right side. Please reference the photo above. Overnight parking is allowed. We ask that you retrieve your car by 12pm the next day. **Parking is not permitted on the circular drive or brick areas. Temporary parking on the circular drive is permitted for dropping off only!

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you're able to enjoy a fun night out with us!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by September 13th 2025. This will help us finalize all the details and plan accordingly. We appreciate everyone who RSVP's earlier than that!

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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and reception will be held outdoors. Please plan your attire accordingly.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes, beer and wine will be provided. The drinks are on us and the hangover is on you... get ready to dance and party!!

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Can I bring a plus one/date?

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We're so excited to celebrate with the people we love most! As we're keeping our wedding intimate, we're only able to accommodate those formally invited. When you RSVP, only the names of invited guests will appear. If you don't see a plus one listed, we kindly ask you attend solo. Thank you for understanding!

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What food will be served at the wedding?

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We will be serving a delicious Italian dinner, from our favorite local Italian restaurant, featuring manicotti and chicken parmesan. Please let us know when you RSVP if you have any allergies or dietary restrictions. We can't wait to share a meal and make memories together!