Where to begin! For those of you who don't know, Caleb and I met at Cornerstone Church Athens back in 2016. We were introduced briefly one night at a meeting for volunteers who were interested in helping start a college ministry at the church. Caleb was there finishing his practicum for theology school, and I was volunteering to lead worship for the Sunday night services we would be starting. That first night that we met, I really didn't think much of him. And I know he feels the same way because he's told me many times that he doesn't even remember meeting me that night... but thank God that first time wasn't the last time we would meet. One Sunday night after a college service he came up to me and a mutual friend I was talking with and started a conversation with us. He had (and still does) this wonderful way of including everyone he's talking to in the conversation and making them feel as if they'd known him for years. As soon as I saw him show another one of our friends how to tight roll his jeans, I was hooked (the '80s is my favorite decade by the way). He went on to ask us if we were hungry and wanted to go get dinner because he was, of course, STARVING. During dinner I got a text from another one of our friends, who is now my matron of honor, saying, "By the way, I just found out Caleb is single". In my head, I was freaking out with excitement, but of course, I played it cool. I'm guessing he was feeling the same way because after that night the rest is history! He asked me if he could take me to get authentic Mexican tacos and cheesecake on our first date. If I hadn't already been sold on him before, I definitely was after that. He's my best friend, my spiritual companion, and one of the most anointed preachers you will ever get the chance to hear. He has completely changed my life for the better, and I wouldn't want it any other way. I love you, Caleb. -Kasandra
As a pastor, I have heard my fair share of worship leaders and singers light up a stage. In 2016, I met one that absolutely blew those away. Kasandra is one of the most talented singers you will ever hear. However, it is much more than talent. Talent doesn’t change lives, anointing does, and she has that. She is life-changing. For me, the way she changes lives goes way beyond church. I have had the privilege of having my life changed by her off the stage. Over the years, I have been able to get to know a funny, quirky, emotional, loving, human that God packed all into a tiny body. And guess what? I fell in love. We have bonded together as partners, best friends, and honestly, soul mates. 2020 has been interesting, to say the least, but it sure started with a bang for Kasandra and me. Four years of dating was enough for me, and I knew she had been waiting for me to get a ring for her beautiful hand, so as soon as the New Year began, I did just that. I have had to repent for the number of lies I had to tell to get her off the scent of the diamond burning a hole in my pocket. I finally made it to February 22nd, engagement day. I took her to our favorite hang out in Atlanta, which has a beautiful bridge with the cityscape in the distance. On the bridge, there was a photographer waiting to capture the moment. After, we celebrated the day with a massive meal at a Japanese steakhouse. I planned it this way because I knew she would love it, but also because I knew I would love it. ALMOST everything went as planned. She didn’t even say yes when I asked her to marry me. All she could muster was, “put it on”. I am guessing that meant “yes” because she cried big, happy tears. Man, I love that girl! And, I can honestly say that I have loved her more and more every day after that moment. I am so ready to begin this journey of marriage with her! Besides giving my life to Jesus, that is going to be the best decision that I will ever make. Thanks for loving me, Kasandra! - Caleb