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FAQs

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Are kids welcome?

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We've chosen to host an adults-only reception, designing a fun evening where all our guests can relax, connect, and celebrate without the distractions of childcare. *The ring bearer, flower girl and bridal baby will be present until their bedtime 🤗*

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Do you have a hotel block for guests?

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We have a hotel block at Quincy Marriott (unfortunately Braintree Hyatt was all booked on our date)! Please ask for Costello/Bernard Wedding when you call to book or go through this link: https://www.marriott.com/event-reservations/reservation-link.mi?_branch_referrer=H4sIAAAAAAAAA8soKSkottLXTywo0MtNLCrKzC8p0UvOz9UvSi3OyczLtgdK2ALZZSCOWmaKraG5maWBgYWpiTEQqGWnVtq6BwWo1RWlpqUCdeelxycV5ZcXpxbZ%2BuYnZeakqhoZBCemJRZlAgB5JAY%2BaQAAAA%3D%3D&id=1769008543333&key=GRP&app=resvlink&_branch_match_id=1543852166471925278

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What is the dress code?

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The dress code is semi-formal. We suggest cocktail dresses for women and suits (tie optional) for men. It is a garden fairy theme, so we encourage florals, and greens, purples, and golds to match our color scheme. Be sure to bring something to cover up if the evening gets cool!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We have limited space and budget, so plus ones are by invitation only. Please check your invitation for details.

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How should we address guests and members of the wedding party?

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All guests are expected to use the correct names and pronouns of others. Accidental slips happen, and gentle corrections are welcome. Continued or intentional disrespect—such as repeatedly refusing to use someone’s correct name or pronouns—will result in being asked to leave. Thank you for helping make our celebration inclusive and kind.

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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Yes, we have a wedding registry! You can find all the details on the Registry page of our website!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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Yes, we encourage you to take photos and share them on social media! Please use our wedding hashtag #becomingabernard or#10s10s10sAcrossTheBoard so we can see all your wonderful pictures.

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What is the wedding menu?

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Our wedding menu features a delightful array of stations to satisfy every palate. Guests can enjoy a pasta station with both Alfredo and tomato sauces, a customizable mashed potato bar, and a carving station featuring ham and roast turkey.