FAQs/Reminders

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🍃Disclaimer 🍃

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This will also be read at the start of the ceremony: “Dear friends and family, Today is a special day not only for us but for our loving heavenly father Jehovah God. In everything Stephanie and I do we strive to honor and please him. This event is no different. Therefore, there are customs that don’t adhere to the principles of our God Jehovah. With the utmost respect, please understand that there will be no rice or confetti throwing, Toasting, No speeches during the ceremony or reception from anyone else other than the officiant who is giving the ceremony talk, and no garter or bouquet throwing. As a friendly reminder please silence your phones before the ceremony starts. Thank you so much for attending this event that means the most to my fiancé and I.”

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🥀 What if I was exposed to covid or someone in my family/workplace has covid? 🥀

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Tyler and I both want to make sure that we keep everyone safe. With the Covid-19 virus and other variants still out there it’s good to take the necessary measures in protecting ourselves which in sense protects others. With that said, if you or anyone in your household or workplace has been exposed to the virus in any way we kindly ask that you get tested. Please quarantine for at least 5 days. During those 5 days go and get tested. If the test comes off as negative, after the 5 days you are good to go and attend our wedding as normal. If it comes off as positive please stay home and get some rest. Tyler and I won’t be offended at all whatsoever if you and/or your family, whom are invited to the wedding, has to stay home due to positive testing. We really want you all to get well if that becomes the case! 🥰 Thank you so much for your understanding!

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🌿 Where do you plan on living after the wedding? 🌿

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It’s official!! Tyler and I now have our very own studio apartment to live in! 😍 I wanted to let you all know so those who are purchasing us gifts can be aware that we are limited of the amount of things we need. Our registry mostly consists of storage furniture and small items. Again, thank you to those who have sent us a gift! We look forward to using it in our new home. 🥰 Note: The registry has been changed a bit, i.e. we removed some larger items that we know won’t be able to fit in our apartment. If you are thinking of purchasing something outside of our registry, please use the registry as a guide, for we do not wish to have to return something all because it doesn’t fit. We want to be able to use/have everything you all give us! We will keep you posted of any changes. Thank you!

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🍄Vendors🍄

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Venue: Meadowbreeze Park in Washington, NJ (Pavilion) Bride’s Dress: friend who is a seamstress Groom’s Suit: Express Bridal Bouquet: Etsy (FlowerDreamsBoutique) Bridal Jewelry: Etsy (AditaGold, KherishJewelry, FavorJewelry, LunaTideDesigns, Dreamcraftjewelry), EBay, Amazon (Aooh), Kohl’s & Jewelry store in Washington Bridal Flower Crown: Etsy (MagaelaAccesories) Bridal Veil: Etsy (OverTheMoonBridal) Groom’s Accessories: Amazon, Instagram, & Etsy (MagaelaAccesories, RingsByLux, BritishGoldCompany, bluesilverstore) Hair: @sharedbysimone Makeup: done by the bride herself Nails: @kristinacalderon_ Photographer: @jennyrodriquez.photo Videographer: @shadowart.photography Caterer: Pasta Grill by Enzo’s Cake: friend who is a baker “DJ”: my iPad controlled by a friend Decorations: Etsy (WeddingByEli, WoodAbleStore, SmartyHadaPartyShop), Amazon (lingsbridalshop, DSHOM, Click-Medical, Wecolor, B-COOL, mixsuperstore, Bransio, Repurpose Compostables, Socomi), Hobby Lobby, & Hand-Me Downs

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🧸Where can we send gifts? Where is the registry?🧸

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We are registered right on this website. If you click on “Registry” at the top it will take you to the link. The address is already plugged into the registry so it makes for an easier checkout. If there are problems with sending gifts from the registry however here is the address below: Stephanie & Tyler Cascone 199 Main Street Apt. 2 Hackettstown, NJ, 07840 Side note: Drive-By Bridal Shower is by invitation only. The bridal party is in charge of that. If you purchase anything outside of our registry feel free to bring it over on our wedding day. There will be a section on one of the tables for “Gifts & Cards” as well as a “Money Box.” Thank you!

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How will it be held? 😷

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Due to the pandemic we are unable to have everyone personally attend our wedding, so we will be having a private wedding instead with just immediate families, wedding party and just a small handful of friends. There will be masks and hand sanitizer provided at the entrance for everyone. Your health is also our priority and we want to make sure we are doing it as safely as possible, as well as still making it an enjoyable occasion! Do not fret though! We will have plenty of pictures and a wedding video to share with the rest of the friends and family! Thank you for your support and understanding!

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🌿Who can attend the wedding?🌿

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Those who were sent a personal invitation by us can attend. Unfortunately we have a strict limit of who/how many can come in person, including the wedding party. I understand the address is presented below, but that doesn’t mean it’s open to just anybody showing up. Thank you for your cooperation and understanding. 🤎 *Note to the guests: Please respond no later than March 1. I will be sending a reminder to those who not have answered by then, only because if we don’t have any response by that day you cannot attend. We have to order favors and catering with the exact number way in advance and due to Covid-19 shipping/delivery gets delayed badly. It’s extremely important that guests answer us right away. We would hate for you to miss it! (Wedding Party are the only exception.)

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Where is it going to be held? Ceremony & Reception? 👰🏻‍♀️🤵🏻‍♂️

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Both ceremony and reception will be held at Meadowbreeze Park in Washington, NJ. 40 Meadow Breeze Ln Washington, NJ 07882 United States There is a large, spacious parking lot. Guests should arrive by 12pm. Ceremony should start around 12:15pm. Reception to follow. (Look at the timeline under “Timeline” on this website.) Please note the reception will be served buffet style. Yes we are having catering but everyone serves themselves.

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🪷 What if it rains or is too windy? 🪷

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In case of rain or it gets windy, unfortunately we don’t have a back up venue. So far it does look like the weather will be on the warmer side. The pavilion is large enough that everyone can be safe from the rain. If it is a bit windy or chilly please bring a cardigan or jacket. Although both are unlikely to happen, as again it seems the weather now is changing to a more comfortable temperature, it’s good to be prepared for anything. 😊 Look forward to spending a lovely time with friends and family during our special day! ♥️

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🌷Rules of the Pavilion🌷 (as written exactly on their website)

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1. No alcoholic beverages. 2. No smoking. 3. No fires of any kind without permission- use of gas grills is permitted at the pavilion, but not without prior approval of the Washington Township recreation committee. 4. Activity is restricted to that area for which permission has been granted. 5. No staples are to be used on the pavilion beams or picnic tables. 6 The responsible party in charge of the activity shall be present before the activity is due to start and remain with the group until all have left. 7. All litter will be placed in the containers provided. 8. No parking on the grassed areas. 9 Park is closed 1/2 hour after sunset. 10. No solicitations without approval of the Township Committee. 11. Abide by all park rules and regulations as per ordinance 2018 -03 (copies available at the administrative office). 12. No raffles may be held without a license (see Township clerk). 13. No pets allowed except on walking paths. 14. No loud music.

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🌸 Basic Reminders 🌸 (Part I)

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🌹 Please, please, please silence your phones during the ceremony! Please and thank you! 🤎 🌹 There is a small station by the entrance which will have boxes of masks and hand sanitizer. Take what you need and leave the rest for others, thank you. 🤎 🌹 The food will be provided in serving trays. Anyone with allergies have been considered. It will be buffet style. Bon appetit! 😄 🌹 There are regular restrooms on site. It looks like a small brown building towards the back of the pavilion.

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🌸 Basic Reminders 🌸 (Part II)

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🌹 Please feel free to take centerpieces home on the guests and reserved tables. Leave the Bride & Groom’s table alone, for we will be taking home our centerpieces and anything else left over. Thanks! 🥰 🌹 You will see favors there. Each individual person may TAKE ONE favor. We ordered just the exact amount for every single person there. (Ex. 54 individuals invited = 54 favors for each individual.) 🌹 If you wish, there will be a spot on one of the tables to put your gifts and cards there. As well as a small money box, but please don’t feel obligated to give us anything. 🤎

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💐Is there a theme? 💐

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Yes! The theme is “Secret Garden.” Flowers everywhere! 😄🌹

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How should we dress? 👗👔

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We want to make sure we are reflecting Jehovah in all things. That being said please wear modest clothing. (1 Tim. 2: 9, 10; 1 Pet. 3:3, 4) For the ladies, please make sure what you wear doesn’t reveal any cleavage, must be knee length or longer, no tight dresses or skirts, no slits in the skirts, no open back, nothing see through and please do not wear white. For the gentlemen, please make sure your suits aren’t tight fitted and your shirts are well buttoned up, not showing your chest. Not to refrain from our own sense of style of course, but making sure we are modest and holy. Not only is this a big day for Tyler and myself, but Jehovah is greatly involved as well. Let’s make our God proud! 😄♥️👍🏼 Note: The theme being “Secret Garden” feel free to dress as if you are coming to a garden party or picnic. 💐

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❌ Will there be any alcoholic beverages? (Part I)

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Short answer: No. The park doesn’t allow alcohol either way. Long answer: No alcoholic beverages are to be served. We are having a caterer with selected non-alcoholic drinks provided. With that said, we strongly suggest that anyone refrain from bringing in alcohol. If any of the guests and/or wedding party brings any alcohol the following will occur: 1. You will be told in a kind and respectful way to remove the alcoholic drink away from the pavilion. 2. If you do not comply hastily with the first warning, we will confiscate the alcoholic drink away from your person and dispose of it immediately. 3. If further issues persists, we will have no choice but to ask you to leave the ceremony/reception. You will not be permitted to come back. 4. Always be aware that there are cameras watching the pavilion at all times. If they catch someone carrying alcohol there is a fine that the person must pay. (continued below)

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❌ Will there be any alcoholic beverages? (Part II)

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(Continued from above) Please, we do not want it to escalate to that. If we all comply cordially we’ll have a great time together. This is a day of love amongst each other. Celebrating a permanent union between two special people who represent Jehovah. We want to make sure that above all else Jehovah is proud of our actions. (Colossians 1:10a) That is most important. We want everyone attending to have a fun time, associate together, enjoy a great meal and dance. If you personally feel that you cannot comply to any of what was aforementioned feel free to decline the invitation. We won’t take it personal; we totally understand and appreciate you all in maintaining the peace and unity. (Psalms 119:165) Thank you.