FAQ's
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How do I RSVP?
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You can click the RSVP tab above and RSVP at anytime.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please let us know if you'll be joining in celebrating our wedding by no later than July 10, 2026.
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What should I do if I can't make it?
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You will definitely be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, we ask that you indicate "Will NOT Attend" on our RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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If your invitation is made out to "[Your Name] & Guest", then yes a plus one has been given to you! Otherwise, we would love to keep the wedding an intimate event with close friends and family.
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What time should I arrive?
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The ceremony will begin promptly at 5 o'clock in the evening, please plan to arrive around 4:30-4:45 to ensure you have plenty of time to find your seat and settle in. We request that guests arrive no later than 4:50pm or you will sadly miss out on our ceremony.
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What is the dress code?
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We’d love to see our family and friends dressed up for our big day. We kindly request that guests dress in ALL BLACK formal or cocktail attire (excluding mens white dress shirts). Formal dress code for women includes: floor length gowns, tea-length, and midi dresses (please avoid short dresses). For men this includes suits (please avoid jeans).
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Are kids welcome?
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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event with the exception of the groom's siblings. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!
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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?
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For our summer wedding, both the ceremony and reception will be held indoors. The cocktail hour will take place on a beautiful indoor/outdoor veranda.
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Can I take pictures?
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We politely request that all phones be silenced and that no phones or cameras are to be used during the ceremony. The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do". Rest assured, we have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we look forward to sharing those with you. After the completion of the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! Come thirsty. We will have an open bar of wine, beer, cocktails, and more flowing all night. Cheers to that!
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Are the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception at the same location?
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Yes! The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all take place at Westwind Hills in Pacific, Missouri.
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What if I don't RSVP in time?
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If you do not RSVP by July 10th 2026, you will be marked as "not attending". We would love to celebrate with you, however, we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors and cannot accept later RSVP's.
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Is there a hotel block?
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For our guests traveling to the wedding, we are working on hotel blocks as we speak! A room block will be reserved and details will be listed under the 'TRAVEL' section of this website when available.
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How can I contribute to your honeymoon fund?
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The greatest gift of all is your presence on our special day! However, should you wish to contribute to our honeymoon, a wedding card can be mailed or dropped in the card box at the reception. You can use also the link under the 'Registry' tab once available. Thank you!
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Is there parking on site?
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Yes! There is a designated parking lot at our venue that will be reserved for guests.
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Is there a gift registry?
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We ask that you bless us with your prayers and presence. Should you wish to contribute in some other way, we kindly request monetary gifts or allocations made towards our honeymoon fund. Thank you, in advance, for your thoughtfulness & generosity.