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Cade Ruthardt

and

Jordyn Parvin

April 11, 2026

San Marcos, TX

How Cade and Jordyn Met

04.07.2023

It was just another night at the house Cade shared with his brothers, Corbin and Cael, in Canyon—friends gathered, music playing, the usual energy of a good time. Nothing out of the ordinary. That is, until Jordyn walked through the door. Cade remembers the moment perfectly. She wasn’t alone—two guys were with her—and his first thought was, She’s gorgeous… but probably not single. Jordyn had come to the party through mutual friends, and at the time, neither of them was looking for a relationship. Cade already knew he’d be moving soon, so he wasn’t looking to start something he couldn’t fully commit to. Jordyn, on the other hand, was just there to enjoy the night, no expectations. But then, they started talking. And something just clicked. The conversation was effortless, like they had known each other for years. Cade was immediately drawn to Jordyn’s charm, but one moment in particular stood out—he asked her, “What does a woman bring to a man’s life that he can’t buy?” Without hesitation, she answered, “Loyalty.” That response hit different. It wasn’t just the answer itself, but the confidence and certainty behind it. The rest of the party blurred around them. Cade had met plenty of people, but there was something different about Jordyn. That night could have easily been just a passing moment—one conversation before life took them in different directions. But fate had other plans. What started as a chance meeting at a party became the beginning of something neither of them saw coming.

The Journey to San Marcos

05.15.2023

On May 15, 2023, Cade packed up his life and hit the road for a fresh start in San Marcos, Texas. He was ready for new opportunities, a change of scenery, and a chance to be closer to his mom. His brothers, Corbin and Cael, were right there with him, equally excited to take on the adventure. Together, they loaded up a U-Haul, said goodbye to their hometown, and drove toward the possibilities that awaited them. At the time, Cade and Jordyn were still living in different cities, but that didn’t stop them from staying connected. Their conversations never slowed, and the more they talked, the more they realized the obvious truth—if they lived in the same place, they’d undoubtedly be together. Cade often told Jordyn about all the things that made San Marcos special—the crystal-clear river, the laid-back atmosphere, the energy of the town. But he was firm about one thing: he didn’t want her to move for him. He wanted her to move for herself, for the opportunities and fresh start that San Marcos could give her. Two months later, Jordyn made the move. It wasn’t a decision she took lightly, but deep down, she knew it was the right one. San Marcos had just as much to offer her as it did Cade, and while being closer to him was a bonus, she saw the move as a new chapter for herself, too. From the moment they were in the same city, everything fell into place. What had been a long-distance connection finally became something real, something tangible. For Cade, it felt like the missing piece had finally arrived. For Jordyn, it felt like a step toward a life where her dreams aligned with someone who truly supported and cared for her. San Marcos wasn’t just a fresh start—it became the foundation of the life they were building together.

Their Trip to Costa Rica

03.01.2024

In March 2024, Cade and Jordyn set off on their first big trip together—a journey to Costa Rica, but this wasn’t just any vacation. The trip was planned to visit Cade’s longtime friend, Cutter Babcock, who not only lived there at the time but also happened to be the mutual connection that led to Cade and Jordyn meeting in the first place. What started as a simple visit quickly turned into an unforgettable adventure. Costa Rica’s lush rainforests, stunning beaches, and adventurous spirit made for the perfect getaway. Some of their favorite moments included bonfires on the beach, where the sound of crashing waves mixed with the crackle of flames as they danced barefoot in the sand, completely caught up in the moment. They also set out on horseback rides along the shoreline, taking in the breathtaking scenery that felt like something straight out of a postcard. But, as with any great adventure, there were plenty of unexpected and hilarious moments. They spent time feeling completely lost on winding Costa Rican roads, where every turn looked the same, yet somehow, they always made it back. One of their biggest victories? Finding chicken nuggets in a foreign country—a small but crucial win, especially for Jordyn. And to top it all off, Jordyn experienced her first time at a casino, adding a little extra excitement (and a lot of laughs) to the trip. Looking back, Costa Rica wasn’t just their first trip together—it was a full-circle moment. The same friend who unknowingly brought them together was now hosting them as a couple, reinforcing just how meant to be their story truly was. The trip became one of their favorite memories, proving they were not only great together at home but also the perfect travel partners, ready for a lifetime of adventures ahead.

Building a Home Together

06.07.2024

When Jordyn moved to San Marcos, she and Cade took a big step in their relationship: moving in together. She settled into Cade’s one-bedroom apartment, a cozy little space that became the backdrop for their first chapter as a couple. It wasn’t much, but it was theirs—filled with late-night talks, shared routines, and the excitement of building a life together. After some time, they decided they were ready for a bit more room. Upgrading to a two-bedroom apartment felt like the natural next step, giving them space to breathe, work from home, and even host friends. But while the apartment grew, the heart of their home stayed the same—love, laughter, and teamwork. They weren’t originally planning to buy a house—it all started as a fun date. As a realtor, Cade was learning the market, so he and Jordyn started touring homes together just for fun. But then, something unexpected happened. They found a house they loved. Before they knew it, they were putting in an offer. On June 7, 2024, they closed on their first home together. Though Cade already owned rental properties, this one was different—this was their home. More than just a place to live, it was a symbol of their commitment, a foundation for their future, and the next step in their journey side by side.

The Proposal

11.28.2024

By the time Thanksgiving rolled around, Cade knew it was time. Over time, he and Jordyn had built a life full of love, laughter, and shared dreams—from moving in together to buying their first home. Every step had brought them closer, and Cade had no doubt that Jordyn was the person he wanted to spend forever with. Surrounded by family, love, and gratitude, Thanksgiving felt like the perfect moment to ask the most important question of his life. But before he got down on one knee, Cade wanted to do things the right way. The day before Thanksgiving, he called Jordyn’s family to ask for their blessing. Each conversation was filled with excitement and support, giving him the confidence he needed to move forward with his plan. With help from his brother Corbin, Cade set the stage for the perfect proposal. The backyard was transformed with rose petals leading to a backdrop of glowing “Marry Me” letters, positioned against the pool’s waterfall. Corbin played along, pretending to take pictures while secretly recording the moment. Cade led Jordyn outside, his heart pounding, while she thought they were just posing for some pre-dinner photos. At first, Jordyn was confused. She glanced down at the rose petals, then looked up at Cade, trying to process what was happening. “I kind of blacked out when I saw the rose petals,” she later admitted, laughing. Then, as Cade took a deep breath, got down on one knee, and said, “Jordyn, I love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you. Will you marry me?” everything clicked. Tears filled Jordyn’s eyes as she laughed and cried at the same time. “Are you serious?” she asked, overwhelmed with emotion. But the answer was easy—Yes. They hugged, kissed, and soaked in the moment before cheers erupted from inside the house, where their family had been watching. Everyone rushed outside to see the setup and celebrate with them, filling the backyard with hugs, love, and excitement. That Thanksgiving became unforgettable—not just for the holiday, but for the promise it symbolized and the future they were ready to build together.

The Wedding Planning

2025

Planning a wedding is no small task, but for Cade and Jordyn, it has been a journey filled with excitement, learning, and plenty of teamwork. From choosing the perfect venue to finalizing every little detail, they’ve embraced the process as an opportunity to grow together—making decisions, sticking to budgets (for the most part), and tracking down the right people to bring their vision to life, even in a city where they don’t have many connections. One of the most special parts of their wedding planning has been Jordyn’s DIY décor. She has poured her heart into adding personal and creative touches to make their celebration feel uniquely theirs. From handcrafted details to thoughtful decorations, every element reflects their personalities and love for each other. Cade and Jordyn want to give a heartfelt thank you to Cade's Mom, Dawn Hallgren, for her unwavering support and generosity in making their wedding possible. They also want to express their deep appreciation to Kevin Parvin, Nina Parvin, and Jeremy Hoffman for their love and involvement, and to their bridesmaids, groomsmen, family, and friends who are helping bring their wedding vision to life. As the big day approaches, one thing is certain—this journey has been about more than just planning a wedding. It has been about building a life together, making memories, and learning to navigate every step as a team. And when the day finally arrives, they can’t wait to celebrate with all the people who mean the most to them!

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