FAQs

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We see you don’t have a registry?

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We know it’s not traditional, We know it’s not how it’s done, but instead of a toaster, the bride and groom would like a a little fun! So We do not have one. We already have everything we could want and need, so we are only asking, if you would like, to donate to our honeymoon fund. So whatever you we’re planning on spending on a gift, Even if it was only a dollar, every little bit counts. There will be a box set up at the Wedding if your unable to come to any shower we have. We also have a honeymoon fund registry on our Zola website if you are unable to come to any shower or the wedding but would still like to donate. There is no pressure to donate. We just knew this would be a question and wanted to make sure we got you all the information possible. Thanks in advance for anything you may want to give. And even if you can’t we still love and appreciate you!

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How important is it to RSVP?

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VERY important. Our venue has a limited number of seats and we have invited the MAX amount that we can. So we will need to know if you are able to come by July 30th. We do understand there will be later RSVPs due to work schedules, that won’t know until closer to the wedding date, but we want as many that already know to RSVP as soon as possible! Another reason to RSVP is because of food. We want to make sure we have plenty for everybody that plan to attend the reception with us. RSVPs are very crucial to any wedding. Your name and your guest should be on your RSVP, you can RSVP attending or not attending for both events for you and your guest. Since we have invited the maximum, every RSVP has the amount of people that can RSVP under that invite. We wish we could invite everybody that we know or have ever known. But with the venue of our dreams, we just simply can not make that happen. Thanks so much for RSVPing! We look forward to seeing you there to celebrate our big day with us!

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Are children okay to attend the event?

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We are trying to keep the event 16 and up. We definitely understand that’s not always the case. But if at all possible we would like to try our best for this. Not that we don’t love love love your young babies, because we really do. We are just trying to give each parent a fun stress/kid free night out with us. It’s definitely nothing against your sweet little ones. We are just trying our very best to help any and all parents have a night off to relax and have a good time celebrating with us. Also, seating is very limited, we can not stress this enough. If you are unable to attend due to babysitting conflicts, we understand completely! And there are no hard feelings whatsoever if you can’t be there. We still love and appreciate you. There will be kids there because they will be part of the wedding party. But we are still planing to make it the best night for everyone! Thanks so much!

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What should I wear?

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We are just asking you to look your best, whatever your best may be. Business casual - normal wedding attire.

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When should I arrive?

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We know people like to be early and that’s completely okay. And if your anything like the bride we know there will be people running right on time making it at the last minute. Lol We kindly ask that you get there at least 10-15 mins before the ceremony starts, if you can, to claim your seat. We want to make sure everyone gets to experience the ceremony in its entirety.

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May I take my own photos?

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The bride and groom would like all guests to be fully present during the ceremony, and refrain from taking any photos or videos during the ceremony. So we ask kindly that before the ceremony starts, all phones and devices be turned off or put on silent. We have a photographer and a videographer that will capture all those wonderful moments for you to see and share and save on social media. But you are more than welcome to take all the photos you would like during the reception. Were looking forward to seeing all your candid moments during the reception.