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FAQs

If you have any questions beyond what's listed here, please don't hesitate to reach out to Patti Bush at pbush64@gmail.com
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What is the requested attire?

Answer

We would love to see our family and friends dressed up for our big day! Tuxedos and floor-length gowns are welcome, as are suits and midi-length dresses. Please visit the following website for more guidance: https://www.theknot.com/content/formal-wedding-attire

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

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Please plan to arrive at Parish of Christ the King between 1:30 and 1:45 p.m. to allow time to be seated. Mass will begin promptly at 2:00 p.m. Late arrivals will not be permitted to enter once Mass has begun.

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WHERE SHOULD I PARK FOR THE Ceremony and/or the RECEPTION?

Answer

Self-parking is available in the parking lot across from Parish of Christ the King. Complimentary valet will be offered at The Mayo Hotel for the reception. As it is a Saturday evening downtown, we recommend allowing extra time for parking.

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Why is there a gap between the ceremony and cocktail hour?

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As our ceremony will take place in the Catholic church earlier in the day, there will be a brief gap before cocktail hour and the reception beginning. We encourage guests to use this time to explore Tulsa, freshen up, or simply relax. The Penthouse Rooftop will open at 4:00 p.m. as a welcoming space to gather, with cocktail hour beginning at 5:00 p.m.

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CAN I BRING A DATE, +1, OR CHILDREN?

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Due to the limited seating, we are only able to accommodate those listed on the Invitation.

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How do I RSVP?

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Please visit the RSVP tab of our Wedding Website to RSVP. We kindly ask that you RSVP by September 5th, 2026. If you find that you are unable to attend after you have already RSVP'd, please reach out to let us know.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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A block of rooms has been reserved at The Mayo Hotel. Visit the Hotels tab on our wedding website to book within the block or explore additional accommodations nearby.