FAQs

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Is this really a costume party wedding?

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YES! This is a costume party! We would love if everyone was in the spirit of the event and dressed up in costume, however we understand that is not in everyone’s comfort zone so it is not required.

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Do I need to eat dinner before hand because I wasn't asked about chicken or fish?

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No! There will be no sit down dinner, this is more cocktail party style however we will have food stations (like pasta!) and lots of passed h'orderves (it should be plenty to fill everyone up).

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Should I bring my kids?

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We love your kids but we kindly ask you leave them at home as this will be an Adult party

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Will I have an assigned seat?

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There will be tables to sit at but nothing is assigned and there won’t be seats for everyone to sit down at the same time, again it’s a cocktail party! Please mingle, dance, drink and eat! If you need a seat saved for you for medical reasons, or physical limitations please let us know!

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Can I help?

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We have to setup and break down the event, any volunteers to help us set up Friday night or clean up Sunday late morning/early afternoon are appreciated!

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I can't find your registry and I want to buy you some tongs or a bread maker!

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We are lovers of experiences and travel, we have everything we need (i.e. air fryers and crockpots) so please in lieu of gifts we prefer you contribute to our honeymoon fund, a venmo link is on the website if you would prefer that option

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How do I get from A to B?

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There is no shuttle to the wedding site, we recommend taking an uber, lift or taxi. Parking can be found at the Nashua Parking garage or High Street lot, both a few blocks walk away, or you can try and find metered parking. But please drive responsibly

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Is there a rehearsal dinner?

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Since we have to set the wedding up ourselves we can not offer a rehearsal dinner as we will be decorating the room Friday evening. Anyone that came from out of town we are deeply honored you made the trip and regret we can’t host you for dinner. Our apologies

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Hey it's the age of social media so what's your hashtag?

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You can use #BurtmanandWife if you are so inclined, we are old and know nothing about Tik Tok so don't ask us about that