We’re getting married!
Wedding Squad
Laura Sgro
Most Likely to Steal the Mic
Emjay's sister from another mister for almost two decades, Laura is a quirky and spunky therapist with a flair for performing. She sings, she dances—you name it, she can do it! Through thick and thin, Laura has always been there for Emjay. Despite living miles apart—Laura in California and Emjay in Maryland—their bond remains unbreakable. They even have matching tattoos to prove it! Laura's incredible ambition and drive are a constant source of inspiration for Emjay. Plus, their stories of shenanigans never fail to entertain. When Laura and Emjay double date with their partners, it's funny how similar Laura and Emjay are, and how Alex is so much like Laura's partner, AJ. The four of them even took a couples trip to Disney World together, creating unforgettable memories and solidifying their bond. With her vibrant personality and unwavering friendship, Laura is truly one of a kind. She's also become a beloved part of Emjay and Alex's trips to California, making every visit back to the West Coast a special adventure filled with laughter and unforgettable moments.
Dr. Ollie Elessar
Most Likely to Diagnose Your Problems
Emjay's rock during grad school and beyond, Ollie is the ultimate support system. Having lived together for two years, Ollie witnessed some of Emjay's lowest moments and stood by her through it all. Their friendship is unshakeable, forged in the fires of life's most challenging times. Ollie is the friend everyone needs—the one who loves you for being 100% authentically yourself. Their tangible help and unwavering support have been a beacon of strength for Emjay. As Alex became part of Emjay's life, Ollie's support extended to him as well, welcoming him with the same warmth and acceptance. Ollie often stays in the basement guest room when visiting, which they affectionately refer to as "Ollie's room." They often call Emjay and Alex "Mom and Dad," adding a humorous and endearing dynamic to their relationship. With Ollie, you always know you're loved and accepted just as you are.
Sam Tallulah
Most Likely to Invite You to a Seance
Sam Tallulah is the first friend Emjay and Alex formed together as a couple, and she quickly became a key part of their lives. Living just a few minutes away, Sam is the beloved step-mom to their dogs, creating a pack with her own dogs and theirs. She is the go-to for game nights, and their friendship came on fast and strong. Sam's dark humor, love for all things spooky, and goofy yet shy personality provide a comforting presence that Alex and Emjay always cherish. She's always trying to feed them or clean their house, adding to the warmth and support she brings to their lives. She even lived with them for a few months! They’ve gotten used to her sitting on their couch, crafting dreamcatchers, and watching either The Office or crappy reality television. Sam's unique blend of wit, warmth, and unwavering support makes her an indispensable and cherished part of their lives.
Murk Blackwell
Most Likely to Win a Nobel Prize
Benjamin Blackwell is the friend who feels like they've been in our lives for multiple lifetimes. As nerdy as they come, Ben's obsession with Pokémon and conventions keeps their friendship lively and fun—and is a joy for Alex’s nerdy side! He brings out Emjay's inner child, with glow-stick tag and chalk drawing sessions being regular occurrences over the years. Probably an actual genius, Ben has a way of making conversations feel like they’re scratching an itch in your brain in just the right way. Plus, he brews the best mead (honey wine) you'll ever taste. His playful spirit, sharp intellect, and exceptional brewing skills make every moment spent together a delightful adventure. Whether he's debating the best protein powder with Alex or sparking creativity with Emjay, Ben’s presence enriches their lives with joy and laughter.
Jessica Meyer
Most Likely to Bring Snacks for Everyone
Jessica Meyer is the friend who just gets Emjay, especially during her screening calls and hermit crab moods. She's an absolute blast and the ultimate gossip buddy. Jessica's support for Alex and Emjay as a couple is unmatched—you should have felt the genuine excitement radiating from her when she found out they were engaged. A cherished friend from Emjay's San Diego State days, Jessica has profoundly influenced Emjay's understanding of modern Jewish culture. Her empathetic nature and ability to be an incredible sounding board make Jessica a treasured part of their lives. Jessica's infectious enthusiasm and unwavering support extend to Alex as well, making her a beloved friend to both. Alex frequently has Emjay put Jessica on speaker phone so he can chime into their conversations, adding his own humor and insights. Whether she’s sharing heartfelt advice or celebrating their milestones, Jessica’s presence brings warmth and understanding to their journey together.
Travis McCahon
Most Likely to Brighten Your Day
Travis McCahon is such a genuine friend that it just makes your heart melt. Friends with Emjay since high school, he instantly formed a connection with Alex. Alex and Emjay both agree that Travis is the sweetest human who just wants to be surrounded by love. Travis is the kind of friend you want to sit with and discuss life and your deepest feelings. He's a "yes man" in the best way possible—always happy to participate in any adventure as long as he's with friends. His sincerity and openness make him a treasured companion, someone who brings warmth and understanding to every moment spent together. Whether they’re reminiscing about high school memories, diving into deep conversations, or planning their next spontaneous outing, Travis’s presence is a source of comfort and joy for both Emjay and Alex.
Nicolas Bonnefoi
Most Likely to Keep the Party Going
Nicolas Bonnefoi was the first friend Emjay made in high school, and they bonded over their shared French heritage. Though Nicolas is the better Frenchman, it's always comforting to have a piece of that connection in a friend. When Nicolas and Alex met, it was an instant bromance. Their mutual love for hard rock music led to a yearly tradition of attending the When We Were Young Festival in Las Vegas, along with countless conversations about upcoming rock shows and mosh pits. Nicolas has a heart of gold and is the peacemaker in our friend group, always making sure everyone has the best time possible. Whether he's headbanging at a concert or organizing the next adventure, Nicolas’s presence brings joy and unity to both Emjay and Alex's lives. His ability to connect with them over shared interests, his unwavering support, and genuine care make him a cherished friend.
Sam Brown
Most Likely to Turn a Serious Conversation into a Comedy
Sam Brown is the friend you need when you want the hard truth or a good laugh. An endless jokester, Sam is the one who sets you on the right course when he sees you're screwing up, always with a dose of his signature sarcasm. He has been outspoken about Emjay and Alex being perfect for each other and has supported them every step of the way. Combining sarcastic banter and genuine care, Sam brings a unique blend of honesty and humor to their lives. Whether he's making Alex laugh with his well-timed jokes or giving Emjay the tough love she needs, Sam's presence is a constant source of joy and balance for both of them.
Rosie Dulak
Most Likely to Help You Bury the Body
Rosie Dulak is a true ride or die. She wants nothing more than for her friends to feel 100% cared for by her. Rosie was the first of Emjay's friends to meet Alex, as they lived in the same apartment complex during COVID, and she quickly gave her stamp of approval. A nature junkie and completely unhinged goofball, Rosie is the one to call if you're looking for a good story or adventure. Her loyalty, sense of humor, and love for the outdoors make her an irreplaceable and cherished friend. Whether she's entertaining Alex and Emjay with her wild stories or just being a comforting presence, Rosie adds excitement and warmth to their lives. Her unwavering support and fun-loving spirit make her a beloved member of their circle.
Kris Kidwell
Most Likely to DIY a Stick-and-Poke Tattoo
Alex’s step-brother, Kris Kidwell, has always been more than family—he's a best friend and partner in crime. With his tattoos and quick wit, Kris has been a constant source of laughter and adventure. From countless concerts to shared mischief, their bond has only grown stronger over the years. Kris and Alex have navigated life together, creating unforgettable memories and a deep, unbreakable bond. Now, as Kris embraces fatherhood and Alex steps into his role as a husband, their journey continues to evolve together. Kris's genuine kindness and his knack for bringing a unique flair to every moment make him a cherished member of their lives.
Lynette Randazzo
Most Likely to Turn a House into a Home
Alex’s younger sister, Lynette, has been instrumental in making Emjay feel truly welcomed into the family. From the very beginning, her unwavering support and deep understanding of Alex brought an immediate sense of comfort and belonging. Lynette’s infectious laugh, boundless kindness, and compassionate nature have always been a constant source of joy and strength for Alex. As siblings, Alex and Lynette share a deep bond filled with love and playful rivalry, which extends naturally to Emjay. Lynette’s genuine care for others and sarcastic approach to life make her an irreplaceable part of the family. Her ability to bring light into any situation and her steadfast presence have enriched Emjay and Alex's lives in countless ways. Whether it's through her witty banter with Alex or her heartfelt conversations with Emjay, Lynette adds a unique and cherished dynamic to their family. Her children adore their Uncle Alex, and they all share many happy memories together.
Vanessa Arthur
Most Likely to Get Kicked Out For Not Wearing Shoes
Vanessa Arthur is Emjay's older sister and lifelong partner in crime. From teaching her how to spell "Rebecca" and playing school to beach days, planning birthday parties, convincing their dad to take them to Disneyland, and taking Emjay to her first concert (Ashlee Simpson), Vanessa has always been more than just a sister. Despite Emjay being a bit of a terror as a kid—cutting up all of hippie Vanessa's Barbie clothes and crying about how nobody loved her—Vanessa's love never wavered. Now, Vanessa and Emjay are as close as ever, with FUN being the main descriptor when they're together. They're two completely opposite sides of the same cloth, bringing out the best in each other and sharing endless laughter and adventures. Vanessa is obsessed with Alex as a brother, finding him to be an essential source of love, humor, and support. Her children think their "Uncle A" is just the coolest and even pushed for the proposal! Vanessa's infectious energy and unwavering support bring joy and warmth to both Emjay and Alex's lives.
Canyon Arthur
Most Likely to Win a Baking Competition
Canyon, our junior squad member, is absolutely obsessed with Emjay and Alex as a couple. At 9 years old, going on 10, she brings an infectious energy and joy to the group. Surprisingly talented in the kitchen, Canyon is most likely to win a baking competition with her delicious creations. She's also a master with Legos and loves making pictures for her Uncle A and Auntie Becca. Canyon and Emjay have a special bond, frequently FaceTiming each week to have silly conversations and admire her latest creations. Her creativity, talent, and boundless enthusiasm make her a cherished member of the family.
Ken Brown
Most Likely to Be Confused with a Mob Boss
Ken, Emjay's dad, is a goofy guy who began to view Alex as a son surprisingly quickly. Despite his attempt at being an intimidating presence, Ken and Alex got along instantly, with Alex being completely unphased by Ken's "dad energy." The two have so much in common, especially their particularness with how things should be done. Never go grocery shopping with them together; they can take hours in Costco making decisions. Ken and Emjay used to butt heads when she was growing up, so the strength of their relationship today is something she cherishes more than anything. Ken's ability to connect with both Emjay and Alex is special, and their mutual respect and affection have created a strong family bond. They take trips together every year, having made treks to locations like Maui and Cabo, with more adventures planned for the future. We asked Ken to officiate our wedding because our relationship with him means so much to us. His goofy nature and deep bond with both of us make him an integral part of our lives and this special day.
