FAQs
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Will last names be changing?
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We have made the decision to both change our last names. After looking through family trees, we’ve decided on Nightingale as our new last name. If you wish to get a personalized gift that includes our last name, we would love if you used this new name!
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When should I RSVP by?
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We would appreciate if you could RSVP as soon as possible, but by no later than May 20th.
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Are kids welcome? What about a date?
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Kids are welcome! All children should be included in the RSVP section. If your child's name doesn't appear when you RSVP, feel free to reach out. If your invitation did not include a plus one, then please do not bring an uninvited guest - but, again, feel free to reach out and ask if we had left out someone important.
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Will alcohol be served?
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No. We've made the decision to have a dry wedding, meaning that alcohol won't be served or permitted. However, there will be plenty of non-alcoholic drink alternatives, food, and games!
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What will be served for food?
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Dinner will be buffet-style, featuring chicken cordon bleu, beef tips, garlic mashed potatoes, macaroni and cheese, garlic green beans, whipped fresh fruit, and salads and rolls. We hope that everyone will be able to compile a meal to their liking!
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Is there a dress code?
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The dress code is Semi-Formal or Business Casual. Suits and cocktail dresses are welcome, as are nice dress shirts and sundresses. Your own comfort is priority! The venue is outdoors and on the first day of summer, so be sure to dress appropriately for weather. We just request no jeans or all white dresses.
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Do you have a hotel block?
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As many of our guests are coming from out of town, we have reserved a block of rooms for your use at the Econo Lodge in Oconto. Please book your room before Tuesday, April 15 to be included in the block. See the Travel tab for more details.
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Where should I park my car at the venue?
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There is plenty of parking available across the street from the venue.
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Are you registered? Where?
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As moving is our priority, we don't want too many large items that we would have to bring with, and if you wanted to gift us something then money to help us with that is our preference. We understand that you may want to get us a gift though. We have two cash funds available on Zola for a house down payment and honeymoon, and a few items on an Amazon registry. Both can be found in the Registry tab!
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What are your wedding colors?
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We are going for a night sky theme, so it will primarily be multiple shades of blue with hints of purple! Bridesmaids will be in a twilight blue, with groomsmen in navy.