FAQs
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Can I take photos and videos during the ceremony?
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We are having an “unplugged” ceremony. This means we are asking that all phones and cameras are put away and turned to silent/off during the ceremony. We have hired professional photographers to capture some of the most important moments of our lives. After the ceremony exit please feel free to take as many photos as you want and be sure to share them with us! If posted on social media, please use our wedding hashtag: #LovestruckForLusk
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Can I bring a date/plus one?
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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, it will be included on a separate card with your formal invitation. They will also appear under your name when you RSVP. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to reach out! Thank you for understanding!
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What is the dress code? EDIT
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We’d love for everyone to feel comfortable and confident while still looking polished! For women, think modest dresses or nice skirts and blouses. For men, button-down shirts with jeans or khakis work perfectly — no ties or suits necessary (unless you want to!). Just a step above everyday wear, with a touch of effort for the celebration. Boots welcome!
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Are there any colors we should avoid wearing?
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We kindly ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the bride- whites, ivories, and creams. We also ask that you refrain from wearing anything too close to the wedding party colors of burnt orange/terracotta, eucalyptus, and burgundy. Think "celebration-ready" without stealing the spotlight- and if in doubt, feel free to ask us!
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Are kids invited?
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Yes, we're having a family-friendly wedding, and children are welcome to join in the celebration! Kiddos should already be accounted for in your RSVP—if you don’t see their names listed or need to make any updates, please feel free to reach out to us. That said, we completely understand if you'd prefer a kid-free evening to relax and enjoy the night. You're more than welcome to adjust your RSVP to reflect how many guests will actually be attending. Just a heads-up: after our sparkler exit, the music may shift to include explicit lyrics—something to keep in mind for little ears!
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What if I don’t RSVP by the deadline? EDIT
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If we do not receive an RSVP back from you by our ??? deadline, you will be marked as “not attending”. The reason for this being that we must provide accurate guest counts to all of our vendors within a timely manner. You can either RSVP through the website or by directly contacting the bride at 615.967.5323.
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When should I arrive to the venue?
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We kindly ask that guests arrive no earlier than 2:30 PM and no later than 2:50 PM to help keep everything running smoothly. The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:00 PM. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?
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The ceremony is set to take place outdoors while the reception will be indoors with an outdoor patio area. Due to unexpected Tennessee weather, we will have a backup plan in case of inclement weather conditions on our special day.
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Will transportation be provided?
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We won’t have formal transportation for the day, but no worries—both the ceremony and reception will be at the same venue, so once you’re there, you’re all set! There’s plenty of free parking on-site, and if anyone needs a little help getting from the parking area to the ceremony, golf cart transportation will be available upon request.
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Will there be an open bar/alcohol? EDIT
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We will not be serving alcohol at our wedding. This was a personal decision based on our values and the atmosphere we want to create for the day—one that’s joyful, inclusive, and family-friendly. That said, we will have a coffee and hot chocolate bar along with a special option for the kiddos!