we met at work. yes he had a job!! lol. He was working a for a company called Baxter corporation and i was working elsewhere. my mother got me to change companies (money was better).i started working there and met joey and we clicked when we 1st met joey claims it was love and 1st sight for him but for me it was a friendship/coworker-ship if that is a word. so we started carpooling with each other when my car broke down he offered to let me ride with him to work then i started to tell he started to like me when he would ask for hugs instead of gas money, and he would let me go thru his phone to see all his messages. which men don't usually allow but he allowed me.then one day finally asked me out i said yes i loved the way he treated me as a friend, the way i was so safe and comfortable with him. that was all in 2008. in 2009 he asked me to be his wife and in 2010 we got married. we had our 1st son/child that year and later 3 more popped in our life and its has been such a ride with him. it's 9 years of martial bliss and 4 kids later. i would do it all over again God gave him to me and i to him.