While we certainly don't discourage you from traveling with your young children, we kindly request that you do not bring them to the weekend's festivities.
California formal; Ladies: Somewhere between sundress and cocktail dress Gentlemen: Somewhere between slacks (no jeans) + collared shirt and suit no tie
Please let us know in your RSVP if you have any food allergies or dietary restrictions.
If this was actually one of your questions, we're clearly not good friends and we immediately regret including you on our invite list.