We met through mutual friends, Shem asked me out on a date and eventually i gave him a chance lol. So finally the day came where we went on our first date April 2011...Shem came and picked me up ...the first 5 minutes riding in the car he had asked me what I did for a living and I told him... I asked him the same question and he told me he worked for the slave trade. With the most serious face and all I looked at him... and for the rest of the ride to movie theaters I was quiet thinking to myself... this man is a liar lol After the movies we hung out all night just talking .. and we've been together since!!