FAQs
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Are kids welcome?
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for our special day, we’ve decided to keep our wedding adults-only (21+)so everyone can fully relax and enjoy the evening with us. We hope you’ll take this as a chance for a special date night!
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when should i RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by September 1, 2026, to help us finalize our wedding plans. We kindly ask that you notify us of any changes as soon as possible to ensure we maintain an accurate guest count. If we do not receive your RSVP by the deadline, we will assume you are unable to attend, and we would truly miss having you celebrate with us.
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What if I RSPV’D and can’t make it
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You will be missed! Life happens, no worries. Please let the bride or groom know as soon as possible that you will no longer be in attendance.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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We are so excited to celebrate with our favorite people! Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate the guests formally listed on the invitation. If a plus one was not included for you, we unfortunately are unable to extend one. Thank you so much for understanding, and we can't wait to celebrate together!
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What is the dress code?
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Our wedding dress code is black formal attire
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What food will be served?
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Taco Bar Join us for a taco bar featuring a variety of meats, including carne asada, adobada, carnitas, and grilled chicken. We can’t wait to share a delicious meal and celebrate together!
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Will there be alcohol?
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Yes, we'll be offering an open bar featuring personalized cocktails curated by the bride and groom, along with a selection of beer. The open bar for all of our guests to enjoy. If you’d like to order a custom or specialty drink not included in the hosted bar, it will be available for purchase at your own expense. Cheers!
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What time should I arrive
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The reception begins at 4PM. We recommend arriving by 3:40PM to ensure ample time for parking and finding your assigned seat.
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Is there parking for the reception?
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Yes, there will be parking available at Pauma Casino
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Is there smoking/ vaping allowed?
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Guests are welcome to smoke or vape in our designated outdoor area, which is located away from the main event spaces. Please note that this area is limited to nicotine and tobacco products only.
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Do you have a wedding registry?
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We are so excited to celebrate our special day with you! While gifts are never expected, if you feel inclined to give, we would deeply appreciate a contribution toward our honeymoon. Creating memories together means more to us than anything we could put on a registry. Thank you for being part of our journey!
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I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?
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For personalized assistance, please text Brittnee directly at (442) 288-5765 or Samuel directly at (213) 760-3284. We're here to help and look forward to addressing any questions or concerns you may have.
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Safety and comfort
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We've selected several nearby hotels to ensure our guests can enjoy the celebration responsibly and safely. If you anticipate needing alternative transportation after the reception, we recommend staying at one of these convenient locations: - Lazy H ranch 16787 Highway 76 Pauma Valley, CA 92061 United States - Harrah resort southern california 777 Harrah's Rincon Way Funner, CA 92082 United States - Pala casino spa and resort 11154 CA-76 Pala, CA 92059 United States Our venue is situated in an area with winding roads, so we strongly encourage having a designated driver, using a rideshare service, or booking a nearby hotel room to make your journey home as safe and stress-free as possible.
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Can I go to the casino after the reception ?
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Yes, you can visit the casino after the wedding reception. Just remember to bring a valid ID, as it is required for entry. If you do go, please be respectful to the casino staff and follow their guidelines to ensure a pleasant experience for everyone.
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Can I also donate money the day of the wedding ?
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Absolutely! We'll have a honeymoon fund box available at the wedding to accept cash and cards, along with QR codes for those who'd like to contribute additional support. We're grateful for your generosity, however you choose to give.
