Wedding Party
Jordan Yanek
Best Man
They say you should never meet your hero's...... Jordan met me in highschool. We hardly knew each other at the time, but after graduation we ended up working together. We created an inseparable bond. One that could survive many drunken nights... and a few slight stabbings (sorry for that by the way). He is the life of every party, and will always take the time to chew your ear off about his favorite gun. Ask him about pigeons!
Kayla Bowers
Maid of Honor
My sister from a another... Kayla is more than just a friend, she is family! She has known me for years and I couldn't ask for a better friend! She always has my back and never judges me for my decisions..although maybe she should! She is my beautiful twisted sister (if anyone gets that reference)! I can honestly say I do not know where I would be without her.
John Stoltzfoos
Best Man
My very own personal ox. Since I have known john, he is always the powerhouse of the group. A gentle giant. He has an incredible heart and was there for me at my darkest times. Has seen me at my worst, and been there at my best. Sometimes i feel he doesn't actually want to relax with me, because he will just start chopping trees at the cabin, or tending to my parents yard when we visit. Father has tried multiple times to adopt this man lol.
Cheyenne Stoltzfoos
Maid of Honor
Chey and I met a couple years back! We bonded over a random coffee and target date and have been inseparable since. She is a beautiful person inside and out and is always there when I need her. She is a Disney and musical lover, girl can sing as well, my blind karaoke partner! Kellin's bonus mom...I am so honored to have her as one of my maid of honors!
Quinton Tran
Groomsman
My first ride or die. Quinton is always the life of the party, as well as the reason i got to meet the love of my life. he introduced me to Brittany, and ill forever be thankful for that. So many adventures with this man. Both a time ill remember forever, and times we cant remember. He was there for me when i was low, accepting random hikes and hour long drives at last minute notice.
Jaliya Ford
Bridesmaid
Jaliya and I met back in 2020, we were always on some kind of crazy adventure! The day we met was an interesting one but I am so glad I met her (Jaliya knows). One of my favorite memories was our road trip to Florida for a week (Her, Kellin and Myself)! We were always doing something together...beach trips, river adventures, movie dates, late night hikes and shenanigans. I always had a blast with this girl and she knew how to get me out of my comfort zone! We were always there for each other, even when things got rough. She is an amazing person and I am so grateful to have her as one of my best friends!
Tom Nerida
Groomsman
The wildcard of my life, and my token filipino. I have worked with tom for many years, experiencing many high and lows. it seems when one of us leave a job, the other follows. We have a relationship most people likely would not understand. Grilling each other by day, and toasting a hard drink to our bond at night. regardless of what others think though, we are inseparable. If you want so see slick moves on the dance floor, this is your man. Tom is so skilled at dancing, just please dont ask him to sing. If you do though, it has to be something from the backstreet boys!
Destine Tatum
Bridesmaid
I have know Des for a lifetime..literally. Des would always say she was my favorite cousin. Growing up the two of us were always together. We would have family gatherings and the two of us would always sneak away... maybe you will hear those stories at the wedding. The bond I share with her is one of my favorites. It always seems that when one of is going through something we both are. I love our random hours long phone conversations just venting to one another. The Hersh gene in that girl is definitely strong, she is stubborn and has no problem speaking her mind..Love her for that! She is an amazing girl and I am so glad to have her by my side.
Michael Gochnauer
Father of the Groom
The greatest father i could ever ask for! I thank this man for every skill I have... albeit I don't enjoy the costly hobby of being into cars all the time. We built my very first car together, with many to come. He taught me how to swim, how to handle harsh situations, and how to be a man. I was a difficult child, and looking back I don't quite understand why I didn't listen sooner. It is complicated for me to explain, but I was a difficult child. I constantly wanted to fight him on everything, believing he was wrong... but as I age and have become a father myself, I am so thankful for what he has taught me. Fathers tend to be the ones that go without thanks... but I want you to know that I walk this earth with confidence, with you on my mind every day. Thank you dad!
Kate Gochnauer
Mother of the Groom
My true savior, and beloved mother. although we were not blood at first, you accepted me into your family with open arms. A child with no previous connection to you, and a weird past. Even so, you stood tall and took me under your wing. Guided me through any situation, showing me how to handle my emotions. You loved me unconditionally... bestowing upon me the lessons I needed to become a man. it may have required a trunk lid to the head here and a purse smack with a Ti-84 calculator there, but you were there. That meant the entire world to me. I grew up attempting to find a woman even half of the one you are, and was blessed with the angel I am marrying. The only downside to this is that you two bond too much... worried you may steal her from me lol. I love you mom!
David Hersh
Grandfather of the Bride
"This is your Pap calling" Pap is one of the strongest men I know. He was always there for me, good and bad! I remember as a little girl always spending time at his house. I know this man has so many "Now" funny stories, he will gladly share at the wedding. I would not be the woman I am today without his guidance and love! I am honored to have this man give me away on this day and I know my dad would not have it any other way. He is the best grandfather a girl could ask for!
Heather Grady
Mother of the Bride
She may not be my mother by blood but she is my mom. She is my wonder-woman! I am not sure how she does everything she does..working full time, running her pet pantry and helping as many animals as she can and still always making time for family. This woman took me in when I was just 16. She showed me what motherly love was. No matter what time of day it is, she will be there. She is not only my mom but Kellin's Grammy.. every event and every milestone she was there. Another person I have to thank for making me the woman I am today. Thank you for choosing me as your daughter and taking on that responsibility. One thing she always said to me that really stuck was "Family isn't always blood, its what you build".
Kellin George
Ring Bearer
Oh' Dear Kellin David! He saved his mom without even knowing it. That smile, that laugh, that chaotic energy is what we live for everyday. This boy changed both of our lives. He makes us better parents and better people. He is so caring, so smart, and just imperfectly perfect. One of the strongest kids I know, he has been through it and always comes out smiling. Multiple surgeries and multiple procedures and still the brightest light in the room. He is so brave, so strong, so confident. He also has an attitude and can be so stubborn (Not sure if that is a Hersh thing or maybe a Tyler thing). So grateful to be his parents and wouldn't trade him for the world! He makes everyday the best adventure. Buddy, I will spend the rest of my days with you in my mind. you may not be my blood, but you are my boy. You have so many year ahead of you, and I am so thankful that I get to spend those years with you. When I first met you, you could hardly walk, hardly talk, but did something within me that I (to this day) will never understand. You manifested something within me... a desire to be the best man I could be. you managed to be the largest part of my life in seconds. The beach trips, the hiking trips, the constant banter we have with each other. I see myself in you and want nothing more than to see what kind of man you will grow into. We love you.
Lillian Gochnauer
Flower Girl
The sweetest little girl you will ever meet. She is a princess in the making, with her army of unicorns, and random toad knight. Lily is the reason I pray for a daughter in the future. seeing how well her and Kellin get along, will cause anyones heart to skip a beat. I am blessed to be this girls brother. I look forward to seeing how well she develops, seeing her in her prom dress, and training her on how to "properly" drive a car like she stole it.
Lisa Gochnauer
Officiant
My Beautiful grandmother. It warmed my heart when she accepted the responsibility of being the officiant of the wedding. She took care of me and got me ready for school nearly every day in my younger years. Nan is an amazing pianist, and an even better grandmother. If you ask her, she may say I am one of the most argumentative boys she knows... but i like to think I'm just keeping her on her toes lol.
