We officially met at a Halloween party in 2009. I remember stumbling for words when Javi invited me to have a few drinks with him and his sister at a local bar. I kindly declined as I was so embarrassed. I thought my chances were ruined. I didn't know if I would see him again. On December 11, 2009, I was visiting with Javi's parents and by coincidence Javi was also in town visiting his parents. My mom and I had plans to make tamales that night so I had to leave early. Later that night, I received a text from Javi asking me out on a date. I excitedly accepted but was curious as to how he got my number. The next evening, we enjoyed our first date at Chili's in Kingsville, Texas. We have been together ever since. Funny thing though, we didn't announce being a couple for almost a year!