FAQs

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What is the dress code?

Answer

"Beachy" Black Tie Optional Think elevated elegance meets ocean breeze. Formal attire is encouraged, but comfort and coastal style come first. For women, floor-length or midi dresses in light, flowy fabrics like chiffon or silk are perfect. For men, a lightweight suit or tuxedo in navy, tan, or charcoal works well. Overall, think refined and beach-appropriate—black tie optional, barefoot-friendly. Stilettos aren’t recommended, as the ceremony site is at the end of a wooden dock. Layers are a good idea also, as OBX evenings in October can be breezy. Please see our curated Pinterest board to get ideas: https://www.pinterest.com/katewear1/wedding-guest-inspriation/

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Are Children invited?

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Yes, little ones are welcome! That said, our reception will be an adults-oriented celebration with loud music, strong language, and a lively party atmosphere. Let’s just say the playlist and party energy will be… 21+ in spirit. Children are welcome, but you know your kids best when deciding if they’ll enjoy the vibe.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Yes, we will have a welcome party Friday (10/2/2026) evening at 6pm, and an Eagles Watch party Sunday (10/4/2026) afternoon.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes, here on our Zola Website :) We also love art so feel free to send something for our ever-growing collection.