FAQs

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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?

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Yes, our wedding is Black Tie Attire. Formal evening wear is encouraged—tuxedos, suits, and floor length gowns. While black is always classic, guests are kindly asked to wear a color. Dress to impress and to celebrate!

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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We're thrilled to celebrate with our closest friends and family. To keep our day intimate and meaningful, we've extended invitations to specific guests by name. If a plus-one was included for you, you'll find their name listed on your invitation. We kindly ask that no additional guests be added. Thank you for understanding!

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Are children invited?

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We love your little ones, but our celebration is primarily an adults-only event. While a few exceptions have been made for close family and special circumstances, we ask that all other guests make arrangements for a kid-free evening. Thank you for understanding!

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What time should I arrive?

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Please plan to arrive at the church by 1:30–1:40 PM to allow time for parking and seating. The ceremony will begin promptly at 2:00 PM.

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Will everything be indoors?

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Yes, both the ceremony and reception will be held indoors. Weather won’t be an issue, so just come dressed to enjoy the evening!

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Is there parking available?

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Yes! Valet parking will be provided at Bourne Mansion for your convenience.

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Do you have a registry?

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We have a registry for the bridal shower, but we won't be maintaining one for the wedding itself. Thank you for asking!

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Who can I contact if I have questions?

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Feel free to reach out to either of us directly with any questions! Haley: (631) 782-7507 Brett: (631) 626-3076

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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At this time, we will not be providing shuttle transportation between the hotel and the venue. We recommend coordinating your own transportation via car, rideshare (like Uber or Lyft), or carpooling with other guests. Valet parking will be available at the reception venue for your convenience!